What does a younger man see in an older woman?

Class, sexiness, a brain, down to earth, knows what she wants, won't play games but yet still likes to have fun, knows her body, is comfortable being who she is, doesn't need to be fake...I am married to a woman older than myself.

Though there are some pretty young girls out there, I woudln't like a relationship with any of them. They seem too fake, they seem like the purposely act dumb to get attention, their sense of style is not what I consider sexy, and I'll be damned if I have to have a conversation with them via text messaging.

They like the low drama level and the fact that older women usually know what they want and how to get it. They appreciate the self confidence an older woman exudes. They realize that older women rarely play stupid little games with them, like jealousy games, etc. If an older woman is dissatisfied with the relationship, she usually moves on.

No offense to younger women, as many are mature and don't play the types of games I've mentioned, but the odds are better with an older woman, for a younger man who's tired of the drama and insecurity that goes along with dating teenyboppers.

When I was 19 I was seeing a guy who was 30 years old. I couldn't get enough of him. He was mature, and very caring. He has a quiet peace about him and I miss him from time to time.

Younger people can be so incredibly ditzy.... I dated a guy who was 6 months younger than me (I was 23 he was 22 at the time) and he was a complete child. He blew all his money on toys and dvd's and stupid halloween decorations all year long... it was like he thought he didn't have to ever become a man. Who needs that garbage?

Guys love the maturity and stability of an older woman. I'm in one of those relationships myself. Some times guys want and need that nurturing mother figure that a younger female can't give them.

It wont matter until one of you is showing signs of aging and the other one isnt. Like it or not our society devalues the aging. Unless you have the money to stop it (plastic surgery, facelifts, cosmetics etc)

Dont worry what other people think. Sadly people are very judmental about race, religion, age, sexuality etc. It really is all about being happy and a good kind person. If you are happy with who you are then just let love come into your life and enjoy the moments. If it bothered him he wouldnt be with you. So let go of that thought, dont remind him of it and just live each day you never know when they will be gone. good luck!

I am also with a younger man. I think that we offer stability and we are over all the drama for the most part that the younger women bring into a relationship.

If he it bothered him, he wouldn't be in the relationship. My brother was dating a woman 20 years older than him. They were together 7 years.

I can't tell you how many stories they had about people calling her his mom.

You can't help who you love/care about. Just enjoy it.

He must be happy so don't stress, enjoy each other.

Older woman know what they are doing. They are smart and they go for what they want. That's what I liked in my ex. She was 11 years older than me. I was completely whipped at the time. I was 21, she was 34. Now we are good friends and I am a godfather to her daughter.

Maturity! Its sexy when you have a gal that does not play games or other silly stuff that the younger ones do. Also there is somthing ultra sexy about a sexy older gal compaired a sexy younger gal... kinda like gals that think Pierce Brosman or Sean Connery are sexy

How much older are you ? I am 17 years older than my fiance and I was the one with the problem not him, he says older women are sexy and a younger woman could never compete.