Poll: Does anyone else think of leaving their spouse?

Of course! We all have thought of it some time or another, but you said you love him, so don't be in a hurry to break it off. You have to Communicate. That is the key word in a marriage. Tell him how you feel, sit down, and really talk. Just remember, the grass always looks greener on the other side. All couples have issues in the marriage, try to be a strong, understanding person, and talk, talk. I feel too many marriages are not given a chance, because you can't express what's bothering you. Try it, hope it works.

If he fantasizes about other ppl only -when you two are making love then you should leave.. if he does not respect you and lies about who he is then leave. I left my ex because that's what he did and I know he cheated on me emotionally too many times to count... I am now with a real man who would never do that. Leave and your life will change for the better!!

Yeah i do everyday when i get home from work and i noticed she just woke up and didn't do nothing all day cus she aint got a job been married for 2 years and i think the first month i realized i hadt to get uot of this relation ship

Yes. After 13 years of lies upon lies, I walked off with little more than the clothes on my back.

I think you are contradicting yourself here. If your husband is treating you in a manner that disrespects both you and your marriage, try counseling first. If he won't go or it doesn't work, then talk to an attorney.

I hope that kids aren't involved.

I sometimes think of getting out and am tired of being lied to. I am married for the second time and if I could do it over again then I would not have remarried again.

No Never!! My husband I had a separation and learned that we are meant for each other. Also God doesn't like divorce he wants to protect us from that hurt. Depending on what the problem is you may want to talk to him or seek counseling. We divorce to much in our society.

Everyday, until I look at how I am being in the relationship. When I recognize what a jerk I am, I find myself back on the court playing a bigger game.

Why did you get married? You took vows to stay together. I think you should get marriage counseling. There are too many divorces these days. People should THINK before they act, and take responsibility for their actions. Geez.

no way i love my husband hes the best thing that has ever happend to me. i could say that im more happy being married to him then we were just boyfriend/girlfriend.