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How can i change myself for other people just because their totally different( and i dont want to change)?
So everyone around me in my class is always changing especially my friends. Their always turning from totally nice to me and wanting to talk to me, to treating me like crap for no reason, and are always telling me how i should change, like for instance one of my friend said you should gain weight or another said you need to get a better tan, or they just come up to me and say you have to get shorter because we cant get up to your height. Or they just purposely piss me off by saying your fugly and thats why im allergic to u! and i do want them to see me in a better way not because i actually care, but because they can be really good friends and there actually really caring when their not backstabbing b_ _ _ _es and their also poular too, so pls help dont know what the hell to do!
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
i am in the EXACTLY same position but theirs 5 of them. some days theyre amazing they come for sleepovers but other times theyre horrible and they say ive been using them? but you know what then i realised were too good for them. maybe theyre using you or they want to be your friend but they use you to have a go knowing youll put up with it but thats where you have to proove them wrong. tell them what the hell is up and your not gonna be their punch bag anymore and leave them. you may think you wont find other friends but you will and yes they will talk but that is pretty sad and make them know you find it so sad and funny that they can do this. youll find better friends and then they will want you back and if your gullable they will wriggle their way back stand up for yourself girl!
goodluck x
Source(s): HIGHSCHOOL >.< - 1 decade ago
Sorry to say this but they aren't real friends and imagine what they are saying that you don't know about! You need to start trying to hang around with other people, just get talking to new people and gradually become friends with them - people who like you for who you are and won't be mean to you. Trust me, by the time you are an adult, you will probably be the one with lots of friends and male attention - the popular kids at school rarely become popular adults.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
That's life (in school).
Rephrase the question. You can't change and not change at the same time. The easiest thing is to not change, since you will be changing daily if it was up to your friends.
Why don't you give them a taste of their own medicine and tell them to hurry up and grow taller (etc).
- 1 decade ago
A true friend does not join in with those who ridicule you.....they are not any kind of friend so forget them.
Be yourself.....you don't have to change for anyone and if they don't like it, well that's tough!
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