Are some other members of the triad cowardly?

Agreed. That was a lame dig at APs, when several of the adoptees here have multiple accounts as well, including the one who posted that question.

Lame...

I am not sure what has happed that I missed out on but I will say that I think a lot of adoptee's have beed hurt very bad, there has been a lot of birthparents and their family members gotten hurt and misled by adoption. The pain coming out in anger and deceiption here will help no one. Everyone has a right to their opinon and letting their feelings be known. Just be honest and try to accept that sometimes the group needs to agree to disagree:)

Cowardly: "lacking courage; ignobly timid and faint-hearted". Doesn't really sound like anyone on this forum to me.

Would "duplicitous" be a better word for those who use multiple accounts to thumb themselves, vote for themselves, instigate a confrontation, or go trolling?

I've got a couple of accounts, I've never tried to hide the fact. Actually, they are all Randy B with the same avitar so its not as though I've even tried to hide them. I just use then for a few questions asked by people who feel it's easier to block someone they don't agree with then deal with what they may say.

Those that have different accounts to hide who they are though, regardless of who they are in the process or what their outlook is, are just wrong in my mind. If you have to hide who you are to make your point, whats the point?

Oh hell yes !!! I have been blocked by so many here that i open account to answer with my same user name. If i am not answering *you* (the person that blocked me) its because i am just bored of the repititive lashing out they do at PAP's and AP's and any one who says they are a happy adoptee.

I do feel honored too that people have blocked me ,i must have rattled so many cages here. I count them as victory.

Some are. Everyone can be cowardly at times.

OF COURSE only the APs are cowardly. Or maybe they are just sick of being blocked and reported when they try to defend themselves.

What triad? There is no triad - adoptive parents hold all of the power in the relationship.

I think that adoptees and first families are very brave to speak up on any adoption forum to dispute adoption myths.

Perhaps...

I second Kazi's answer. Actions speak louder than words.

Cowardly is as cowardly does.

No one gets a free pass.