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We always argue!?! He stayed overnight and we had 2 rows! Is the relationship worth it?

I do love my boyfriend. But every time we see each other we argue,

I don't seek arguments I try to avoid them, especially in public and if I'm in the wrong then I'll take it, but I don't think I am so I'll argue back at him. I don't start them but they usually start over something stupid. and they always boil down to the same "he doesn't feel I care enough" so he'll stress me out til I'm in tears or I'll harm myself. (because I'd never take it out on him.)

I'm at the point where I dread seeing him, because I know he will find something to argue about, and will reduce me to feeling like s**t. We do have good times but sometimes the bad seems to outweigh the good

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Short answer "no". Leave this guy as soon as. A relationship should not be like this. Please end this before it gets worse and results in long term emotional damage for both of you.

    Find a guy who you can be yourself with and enjoy all of the time you are together, not a few stolen moments. This will give you a comparison to the doomed relationship you have at present.

    Sorry if this is not what you wanted to hear, but you did ask for a reason. I believe that you already have your mind made up and are just looking for conformation and reassurance.

    Well girl, end it. Live your life, enjoy your life.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should never be with some one who makes feel bad or makes you want to harm yourself. No guy in this world is worth it.You and your feelings come first and even if you are in the wrong he has no right to treat you that way. If the bad out weighs the good maybe you should rethink your relationship..

  • 1 decade ago

    well if its always like that then i think you should find someone that you don't always argue with.

    you could always try to talk it out with him about this but it could end up in another argument.

  • 1 decade ago

    ask him if its worth it.........If theres love, then its worth fighting for!

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  • 1 decade ago

    don't be a crazy girlfriend!!

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