Help....marriage issue..Why?

I think he just makes you feel good about yourself. There is nothing wrong with that.

When I think of old "crushes" I do sometimes. You have to think about your husband. This is one of those learning experiences, and after you get through it you'll appreciate your relationship more. Make a bad choice and there will be some consequences. Yeah, you may have a good time in the moment, but in the long run. If you've been married for over 20 yrs, you know it didn't happen with your rose colored glasses on... you have to work hard for what u want and keep working for what's worth keeping. Leave the other guy alone, for the fact he gives you butterflies, and do something to your husband that gives him butterflies.

Well I'm 40 and have been married for almost 20 years.

And it's all good fun and game, keep it up ......But Do Not Have Sex With

Him !!!!!!!! That's when the game is over and you loose.

You need that excitement in your life , and you want it to last as long as you can , cause I've been there......I pushed it to the limit .

I got caught ! Luckily she forgave me , I had too much to lose.

But boy did I love that schoolboy feeling !!!!

I say no sex , because it's not the sex , it's that first time love feeling

And when you get caught it won't hurt him so bad . Notice I said when not if.

Good Luck

since you feel like a schoolgirl, it sounds like a schoolgirl crush! i would advise to STAY AWAY! unless you are confident that nothing will ever happen! make sure you only do what you would do if your husband was standing there watching!!!!

It's a crush, we all have them at some point.

Stay away from him, or you could be tempted into inappropriate behavior.

Remember, he's just a guy- he picks his nose, scratches his balls, and farts like all the rest do. Keep reminding yourself of that.

Yes it's normal. But you need to stay away from the dude incase you get tempted. It's not easy, but you can do it.

this isn't a marriag issue at all.... its just your own personal issue.

Unless you plan on bringing this flirtation any further than it will definitely be a marriage issue. Its your choice... do you want to make this a marriage issue or stop this childish crap now?

im not married but i know some people that has the same problems.

yes and at your age, you should KNOW to run the other way. its nothing but trouble. i know b/c i almost got myself in big trouble like that! run run run away!

Once.