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what a shame on her, i bet her head is really messed up right now, she needs to confide in some one older so that she has their support, i can totali understand that she would be scared to tell her parents, when i first got pregnant i was 16 and terrified to tell my dad as he was reali stricked, but as time went by i realized i **** keep it a secret for much longer, so i bit the bullet and told him, and yea e went mental, but as my bump grew my dad grew round to the idea and then e took me out baby shopping, which was a total shock, and he is the proudest grandad ever, they will go mad i aint gonna lie to u sweetie but they will also grow to the idea and im not being funni but parents no wen something is rong and it wont be long before they start questioning her, she needs an adult to speak to so she can go through her options, if she needs anyone to talk to she can feel free to email me and ill get back to her asap, email sazzajayne@yahoo.com wish her all the luck in the world and my heart goes out to her xx

Be there for her and try and get her to talk to her parents... By her talking to them gives her more options on wether or not she wants to keep it or even adoption she has more options now than she will later. Her parents will find out eventually just make sure it's not to late. And be a good friend and try and help/guide her to make the choices she wants and not what anyone "wants" her to do because she am has to deal with it later on in life no matter what she decides... And like the girl before said her parents will grow to the idea and yes there's a chance they'll loose it but the won't hurt her or the baby. So encourage her to make her decisions that will benefit her in the end.

Apparantly this poor, young, foolish girl and boy did not receive proper moral and sexual education (at home or anywhere else).

People who have millions give money to enhance teaching of good living practices. These teachings are sometimes ignored by those who become victims of their own uncontrolled passions.

Experienced people of sound mind - are the best teachers and they freely give sound advice, advice, advice.

Parents are mostly responsible for their sons & daughters sexual behavior. After the "now pregnant" seance, parents are the best advisors; there are several intelligent, healthy options.

(since you are only 14 years) Be very quick about it !

Examine all options and pick the one that best suits your personal disposition. It's your life and your body, be strong,make your own decision, just like you did when you allowed yourself to have unprotected sex. Good Luck, make an intelligent decision.

Jonathan

If she really is worried about being physically hurt by her mom, she should contact a teen shelter.

Otherwise, it's going to be scary, but there's no way for her to keep a baby a secret for very long. Her parents will hit the roof, but once the baby is born they'll turn into proud grandparents.

She needs to tell her parents, so she can get proper prenatal treatment and make a decision on what to do. I think people are often surprised by the reaction of their parents, I doubt her Mom will literally kill her.

Good luck!

Sonds like to me like this guy is straddeling the fence here!He wants his cake and ice cream at the sametime and that just dosen't work!He's eithear going with this girl or not or playing the field!Have you told him that you have a crush on him?He's not going to know if you don't tell him!I'd confront him about it and let him know that you know about the girlfriend and see what happends!

tell her parents or g.p. (if shes frightened to tell her parents tell the g.p. first)

she need help ether way (possibly tell another relative like aunt, grand mom anyone she can confide in ) but sooner the better (she is very young and may need medical help)

Just be there for her so what shes peg. when people make fun stick up for her and make sure her mom knows =) good luck

she's still going to have to tell her parents... it will be obvious sooner or later.

meanwhile, i hope you and others who know her will learn a valuable lesson from your friend's pregnancy. it's a shame she's pregnant.. it really hinders freedom, and future.

She has to tell her adult caregiver, whether that is a mom or somebody else. There is no way around it.