what to give for a wedding gift?

Massage therapy would be a great idea. If she's too ill to get out of the house maybe have a Massage therapist go to her place. I find massage therapy very relaxing and has helped many of my friends from many illness, back pains and surgery recovery.

Hope this answer helps. Good luck!

What about a honeymoon upgrade or an excursion for their honeymoon? Gifts that will create lasting memories are always welcome - candlelight dinner on the beach, upgraded room at their hotel, fine dining, boating, yacht excursions, etc.

Or, an experience day gift card for something like a hot air balloon ride, couples massage, cooking classes, wine and cheese tasting lessons or anything they will enjoy. Check out www.experiencedays.com for more ideas.

Good luck!

Actually I love your ideas! I would only add maybe a hair salon gift card? Or an in home massage?

I defiantly do like the spa idea, or maybe you could help out with their honeymoon. Like maybe pay for their hotels cost.

I think your ideas are really great! When I got married this was my favorite gift, I totally pump this product because it was really awesome and saved me tons of time!

offer to help out with something that doesn't involve money or send a card with a gift card that will treat the both of them

Whatever it is, they would be glad to recieve

Spa treatments sound good to me.

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They are great ideas, also gift cards in general then they can choose what they really need.