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BA asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Dilemma....I dont know what to do?

I have been friends with these two sisters for a long time. Recently I have fallen for both of them. Neither of them know I'm interested in that sort of way. I am having trouble deciding what to do? Can you fall for two people? I know I should pick one but I can't. Should I tell them, or tell one, or decide which one I like more and tell that one? I like the older one because she is a great person and she has great personality and seems like the logical choice, but the other sister I get along with better and we both have a similar sense of humor. What should I do??

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they're not twins, one year apart...

if i tell one and she isn't interested, would it be weird to ask the other one later?

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  • Michele L
    1 decade ago
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    dont tell them!!! they'll think ur a freak seriously they will NOT be flattered that you have a crush on both and they will NOT sympathize!!

    however if you "must" choose one sister, go with the younger one cuz the logical choice won't last.. follow ur heart.. but seriously you will ruin the friendship if u tell them ur in love with both... don't do it!!!

    "if i tell one and she isn't interested, would it be weird to ask the other one later?" the answer is YES IT WOULD BE WEIRD!

  • jorge c
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    maybe you right.. if you tell one and she not like you in the way you like her, what happen, well you maybe not have the chance with the other one. but I think is not affair you have this kind of feeling with the sisters, tell me do you thinking in the future if one of them tell you yes.. try with the other? why first you not put your mind in order and after think what sister you like for have a relationship, but because for in choose the wrong one, and after you said that you make a mistake and try to have something with the other.. you have to think this thru before said anything..

    good luck

  • Gurlie Gurl
    1 decade ago

    just choose which one you have stronger feelings for if things work out great and if not..DONT ask the other sister..move on. =)

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