How do I find out where a funeral is without having to ask the friends and family of the deceased?

it may be in the local paper, but you really shouldn't go without asking the family first,

if you find it to difficult to ask them direct, send them a sympathy card with a letter saying you would like to attend could they possibly let you know when and where it will take place.

if you get no answer or they say they don't want you to come i'm afraid you'll just hav to accept and respect that. If they contact you telling you where and when it is, you will know you are welcome.

i went to my ex mother-in-law's funeral with my children.

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Not personally, but I knew a girl in middle school who did. The "emo" movement hadn't quite started yet, but I think she and her group of friends were "precursor emos" shall we say. She was a nice girl, but a few of her friends as I recall were suicidal. I asked her why, and she said that she wanted to help people. I think it takes a certain type of person to be a funeral director and do that job. You have to be sensitive and caring enough to be able to help grieving families, but you have to be detached enough so that you can do your job without going crazy. The people that can are amazing - I could never do what they do. Glad to see you didn't get stoned Gandalf ;) Peace!

Most funerals are well attended and if there has been a bit of a rift then

I think it okay to go and stay low key at the back.

You can always try the popular florist for prices and casually

enquire if they have had flowers for A. N. Other and if

they could just remind you of the details......

You could always check the local newspaper. Or you could call around to the different funeral parlours and ask if the person is being waked there.

Try the paper or ask someone whos going thhat isnt really a good friend.

Why don't you want to ask them? They will surely be pleased that you did ... if you wish to share your sympathy.

Otherwise, local paper or possibly radio station.

It's one thing to pay your respects. It's another to gatecrash something that personal. If you're honourable, the family would rather you asked. If you are an idiot, well, might explain why you didn't get the invite.

Bob

You can usually find the obituary online. You can also use sites like www.localfuneralhomesearch.com to get this type of info.

hiya, most people put it in the local paper, so people can read about the person who died,then they can go to the church,as it put down in the paper,the time and date, and what church it is going to be in.

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