In this situation (details), who was the more ill-mannered one?

Person A was right.

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In my opinion person B was rude and if it was my car and I'm the driver, it wouldn't have gone that far.

I was driving somebody to hospital as they were having an operation on their knee and they were a back seat driver. I calmly stopped the car and told them that I had satisfied the testing instructor and I did not need any further lessons. If, however, they insisted on trying to teach me, they would have to get out of the car and would not be allowed back in. They allowed me to drive without any further instructions.

As Person B said to your comment about getting the bus home "If that's the way ...." then they have basically said that they will get the bus home.

As for the email, Person A needs to do nothing. When Person B wants a lift, Person A only needs to remind them that "you want to spend time apart, this includes taxi service."

If Person A and Person B become friends again, I would, however, make it clear to Person B that lifts are not allowed. If you decide to meet up for a shopping trip or similar, they have to find their way there and back again and do not succumb to giving them a lift, regardless of their situation.

KD

B was definitely the more ill-mannered one. It is very bad manners to accept a lift and then be so critical.

I would have dropped B off at a bus stop on the way there, never mind going back!

I hope A won't be offering any more trips in the car unless B apologises?

(By the way, can I hazard a guess that A is female and B is male? Some men just cannot abide being a passenger in a car driven by a woman and it brings out the worst in them!)

Person B was the most ill mannered in the way that person expected a taxi service and then criticized the driver, how distracting. BUT person A should have made it clear that person B was to find their own way home. I would not have taken person B home either but I would have made sure person B knew that. I also would not be available to take person B anywhere in the future. Sorry no room, even if I only had one or two other people in the car.

Did person B give or offer any money for fuel? To me person B should have been more respectfull to person A for being good enough to take them. Two wrongs don't make a right though, person A should have taken person B back and explained that they don't like their attitude and that next time person B would not get an invite if it continued. Person B may have starded it all but person A was just as out of order for not acting like an adult in the situation.

I would say that Person B is ill mannered! For them to accept a free lift and then spend all the time criticising Person A's driving skills is very rude. Person A is well within their rights to tell them get the bus home and shouldn't be expected to provide a free taxi service in future for Person B until they apologise!

The only fault I'd find with A is that they didn't sort out for certain that B would be getting the bus back. Saying "fine, get the bus back then" could be taken as just being said in the heat of the moment and B could easily have assumed that they didn't mean it, so I'd understand why B was upset to find that everyone had gone. But it was very rude to criticise the driving of someone who's kindly giving you a lift.

Person B may have been rude -- maybe extremely rude -- although it's impossible for me to say for sure, never having been in a car with Person A.

Also, you didn't tell us how Person B responded when Person A suggested he take the bus. Unless Person B actually said he would find his own way home, Person A should not have left without him.

But regardless of these details, Person A isn't obligated to chauffeur Person B in the future if he doesn't wish to.

B was being a tw@t, A told her to get the bus home, to which she basically said "fine"... So B has no right to be angry. I'll be honest, if i was A i would have done the exact same thing. In fact, i think A dealt with it very well, if i was A i would have told her to get the bus home in a much harsher way.

a & b share blame. a knew b was like this before the trip started and choose to drive b anyway, then abandoned b half way through the trip. not only ill mannered, but unsafe! a should simply refuse to drive b, but if a doesn't, then a needs to stop complaining.

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