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how come my mom hates me.....?

how come my mom hates me what did i do wrong she is always mad at me i dont want to fight all the time why is she very nice to my brothers but she is always mad at me is it maybe because i made her very sick when i was born because she was not so post to have no more kids she is always mad at me even when i try to help out around the house she says i did it half *** my oldest brother is on drugs and she still give him money he lives at home he is 30 years old with no job she still treats him better she does not do no house work my brother the 24 year old does the cleaning the clothes almost everything my grandma was my mom she was a real mom but she past away last year now i dont got a mom or dad my dad past away when i was 12 he was a very great dad but he and my grandma are gone now there is no one let when my grandma was dieing i talked to her and told her i would miss her she said she was not afraid to die shes said she was afraid to leave me cuz she know how my mom was with me also she always said i was her favorite how i miss her and my dad why does my mom hate me no matter what i say she gets mad also i am 16 im i just being another teen if i am please tell me! i just wanna know why she hates me

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Sometimes it is best to not try to figure out why she is the way she is. It won't change things. You have to look for your future and how you can leave and live elsewhere. My parents died when I was 15 and I had to live with relatives and they weren't always nice and sweet. I just looked at what classes I could take to get a good job when I got out of high school. I tried to be useful like you are doing and knew that when I got old enough and had a good education I could move out and live on my own and so I did. You can't worry about your mother's hangups.She is probably unhappy and just takes it out on you. If you weren't there it would be some one else. Eventually you will meet someone who will love you and you will make your own family. Just look for the future and pray for guidance or maybe divine intervention.

    Source(s): experience
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    5 years ago

    My Mom Hates Me

  • 5 years ago

    Wow I'm sorry you have to go through this a mother who hates and treats a child horribly doesn't deserve one at all just try to rise above the bs and ☺ smile and be happy btw sorry for your loss of your grandma and father it hurts and it's hard to get over I know how it feels to lose someone you love dearly anyways I'm sure your mom doesn't really hate you she's just mad and takes it out on you cuz my mom's like that sometimes so ya

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  • 6 years ago

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    how come my mom hates me.....?

    how come my mom hates me what did i do wrong she is always mad at me i dont want to fight all the time why is she very nice to my brothers but she is always mad at me is it maybe because i made her very sick when i was born because she was not so post to have no more kids she is always mad at me...

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  • 7 years ago

    My mom is always hanging out with her friends.

    And is like whatever when I tell her something 😡😡😡😡😓😓😓😓😓 My mom makes me feel lonely and make me feel like I'm 0% special and I am very ugly and stupid . But she gets me a lot of stuff though ☺️

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I do exactly as she says and she still treats me horrible. I think I am the worst mistake she ever made and every time I bring up something horrible she does we we argue to make her feel bad but then i just get yelled at told i am worthless and hit one time she said she was gonna kill me plz help

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    my mom hates me too, im young so i cant run away. my dad is really nice though. my mom is also like typsy or druk or mad 24/7/365

  • 6 years ago

    Well there is many reasons, such as:

    1. She doesn't want to favor her favorite(*cough* you *cough*)

    2. She is a worthy mother!(*cough* not *cough*)

    3. She haven't realized you are da best yet

    But for a solution, I suggest sending a message to this guy named Dr.Phil, HE IS A MAGIC MAKER! for people who are angry, have addictions,etc. So good luck, but keep this tune in your head

    No matter who you are, what you are, how your'e treated, someone loves you, loves you, loves you!

    Know that I care... BTW I MADE DAT UP NO COPY RIGHTING MEH

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    My mom use to hate me just run away it will show her how much u mean to her cuz she will worry about if she says she is going to call the cops jut keep running don't pack anything and just stay gone for a day that will show her how much she really loves u but if it dosent work pack some stuff and run away for aslong as u can

  • 4 years ago

    She doesn't like your choices of Mac and cheese

  • 5 years ago

    She doesnt hate you she is just angry at herself.

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