y conceiving is becoming so difficult?

Just because your young and healthy doesn't mean that it comes fast! I was 19 when me and my husband started to have sex w/o protection. I am now 22 and he is 25! I haven't had any luck! The best thing for you to do is chart every time you get your period, how heavy/light it is, chart every time ya'll have sex... Things like that!! Then show your obgyn.. good luck!

I read your question and I understand your frustration, my dear.

Believe it or not, my husband and I tried to conceive for more than 8-months. We tried to refrain from sex for days and even weeks but it didn't help.

Worst part is, there were empty hopes - I thought I was pregnant but in the end I wasn't. It's really frustrating and I understand that.

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four months is not considered a long time in terms of conceiving. The average healthy couply with no fertility problems can take up to a year to fall pregnant. On average 25% of people trying conceive on any given month get pregnant It can get very frustrating i know, i am currently on month 4 trying after miscarriage its so hard.

Good luck and i know it can be hard but stay positive.

xx

i've been ttc as well for about 9 months and nothing... my fiancee already has a 5 year old and wants to have another one now...i too want one which will be my first...every month i go through wishing my period wont show up and it does...so i spoke to a friend of mine and she told me to go on birth controll pills for 2 months and then stop using them...she told me that was how she kept getting pregnant so im going to try it and see...as for your question it could be so many reasons why this is not working right away the best thing to do it do whatever solutions you feel comfortable trying but leave whatever happens up to God

4 months is not a long time at all sweetie. I think it will happen when it's suppose to. you know when you stop trying thats when it will happen? I would relax and try not to stress about it. It will happen when its suppose to. i know that doesnt help much but if you do not get pregnant within 1 year i would see the Dr

Ive been trying for 3 years now.

Have your GYN take a look at your tubes and make sure they arent blocked.

Then have your partener tested and make sure his sperm count is good.

then after that you should have no problem.

But those are some important factors that your gonna need.

Also Good Luck, Im still trying, and most men arent so easy when it comes to giving up their sperm for testing, good luck on that too.

relax..

BD every 2-3 days from your period

cut out bad habits.