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Opinions on not telling the whole truth?

Is it better not to tell the truth to someone if you think it would cause an upset in your relationship, or is it better to tell the truth and be honest? Im dealing with a problem like this now..a friend said that they didnt want to tell me something because it would possibly mess up our relationship...I say (now that I found out anyway) that withholding truth is as bad as lying and its not being honest with the other person. Apparently, my friend has a different idea...I suppose something like if you dont directly ask, then I wont bother to tell...dont want to upset the apple cart.

Update:

true point about white lie concerning baby..however, as far as rapist?? Im thinking if you lied he'd find out she wasnt under the bed or in the closet...and eventually find her anyway, so the point in lying is just as worthless as telling the truth..and by lying, you might get killed right before he rapes grandma, cuz you pissed him off..such a dilemma...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    well truth has to come forward some or the other time.ur friend told u that there is something that would mess up ur relationship then whats the difference between telling and not telling as ur friend had already told u that there is something wrong and ur already tensed.

    ITS ALWAYS BETTER TO TELL THE TRUTH.

  • 1 decade ago

    He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.

    Prov 17:9

    A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter.

    Prov 11:13

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Exodus 20:16 " Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour." It's best to tell the truth all the time. How would you like it done to you ? Psalm 15:2 " He that walketh uprightly, and worketh righteousness, and speaketh the truth in his heart."

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Would you deliberately go up to a women with a new born baby and say, 'what an ugly baby', it that is what you believed.

    No you would not, you would be polite because personal opinions are just that.... personal.

    Practicing Shaman... quantum physics rocks.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Use wisdom, Ecclesiastes 3:7 There is a time to speak & a time to keep silence.

  • 1 decade ago

    over the years in matters of relationship, I have found placing that first to start, and next my politics, it is personally best for me, at least I dont hide

    Source(s): the Spirit within
  • 1 decade ago

    But I thought that truth is the most important thing.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Depends what is it, will it REALLY hurt them or do you just not want to tell them?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Rapist: Where is your grandmother hiding? I want to rape her!

    Christian: I can't lie please don't force me!

    Rapist: TELL ME THE TRUTH NOW! DON'T LIE!

    Christian: Ok! PLEASE I can't disobey God. She is in the bathroom hiding!

    So much for........lying is a sin.

  • Borel
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Small white lies can pass.

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