HELP!! Is this normal for a daughter to do this to her mom?

It sounds to me like you have an extremely spoiled daughter, who is so self-centered that she can't possibly think of anyone except herself. I know it's going to be tough, but let her go! Someday, hopefully, she will realize her mistake and come back. If not then you just don't have to put up with a selfish self-centered egomaniac!

I feel for you and I think the only thing you can do is to keep strong. Write her a letter asking to meet at a cafe or somewhere neutral but I strongly suggest you take a friend with you. In time I hope she will realise her mistakes and will come home. Sadly it will take a lot from her to admit that she has been wrong and I wouldn't even consider asking her to do this or asking her for an apology. In your letter I would tell her that a mothers love is unconditional and everlasting and tell her the door will always be open for her without question.

I hope that in time she will become more mature and realise that a life of drink is not the way to go, but sadly she is obviously under this influence and the influence of unsuitable people but there is nothing you can do until she herself sees the light.

I don't think it is wrong to grieve for her but don't give up hope.

The fact that your daughters boyfriends mother is purchasing booze for her is a crime is something that you should report to the cops.

You don't have to feel remorse for what happened. You were in the right Your kids need to help you any time they can. It's a privilege not a chore. They forget that. Your kid might resent you for a while but it's better than having her turn into an alcoholic before she is even old enough to purchase it.

well im in a situation similar to yours. except im the daughter. Now, when i moved out, I swore i would never speak to my mother again. your daughter is probably very hurt by your throwing her out (even though at 19 ahe should be out of the house anyway). i think that you should gibe her some time to get over the hurt and reconcile with you. but it has to be on her own terms, or else you will only push her away further. If shes willing to involve the law, you have no choice but to let it be. i know its very painful to just let go of your child like that but you got to do what you got to to. I wish you the best of luck in anything you decide to do!

i would wait it out if her boyfriend is a heavy drinker and he's in the navy chance's are its not going to last and you can be sure that's when shell come running she just needs to learn the hard way. i would keep calling and keep sending email apologizing for what ever it is you didn't do just so when she does come home she cant say you didn't try and thats the best you can do.

"DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF. THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT!!" Sometimes young adults have to do things their way. It may seem harsh but give her space. The more you push the further she will go. Believe me, been there done that, and still doing. Pray alot for you and her safety. Good Luck!

im sorry um try to keep on contacting her and put pictures of u and her and u in an email or a text message and probably shall come back and say im sorry. shall eventually come back

i am sorry! but you just have to let it go. i wouldn't try to keep contacting her because she will just get madder.

just try and apoligize even though it was not your fault maybe she understand