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What i don't understand about women!Anyone agree?Ladies?

A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    This made me smile because it's so true. But you cannot force love. Sometimes your head says he is perfect, but that "thing" is not there. If our heads conducted on who we fall in love and who we don't, there wouldn't be so much issues with finding love. Unfortunately love is not logical. It is the most senseless thing in the world. It is Magic. I guess this is what makes it worth going through all the crap from some "less qualified applicants".

  • 1 decade ago

    That analogy is not the same thing. We like men as friends too. Just because we talk to you doesn't mean we want a romantic relationship with you. Would you prefer we just not make friends with the opposite sex so there is absolutely no misunderstanding? Life would be really interesting if we couldn't talk to someone unless we were interested in them in a romantic way.

    I just don't see how because you think you're perfect for her you think she should feel the same way. Don't you think women know when they are attracted to someone? Why do you feel she's dating less qualified. To her they're qualified. Maybe she chooses people who have issues because she has her own. We all carry baggage. If he's an alcoholic maybe she feels she can help him. That's something she needs to realize herself.

  • 1 decade ago

    word

    im in the exact situation dude

    its bullshit

    like ive been here all along, and were perfect

    so why are you dating all these other guys?

    waddafuck?

  • marvin
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You know thats pretty good actually. Us good guys are always overlooked anyways.

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