How do I get through to my foolish brother? He is constantly letting people play him no matter what I say?

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Long story short, my brother is a very kind hearted and generous man. I consider him a fool in more ways than one, though. His best friend said that she got robbed at work. She left almost 200 dollars in her jacket pocket. And he gave her what they stole the next day. This girl has no respect or appreciation for him. He is always giving her money or helping her with her numerous problems. She never stops asking for "help." I know for a fact that she doesn't want desire him sexually or physically. They never kissed or had sex. She told this to my fiance'. Enough is enough. How can I help my brother to wise up and ditch this no good, ungrateful b@tch?

Sheena · Accepted Answer

Maybe you can't get through to him. Maybe he enjoys playing the fool. I bet that a piece of him is really in love with this girl and is waiting for her to fall in love with him. Yeah, right. He won't wise up until this girl really hurts his feelings. And I hope that you are there to comfort him, not say: "I told you so."

open married couple · Answer

Have you sat this girl down and discussed with her what you know?  If your brother can't see, I say just be there for him no matter what happens.

lordofflies · Answer

one word intervention with him and her.

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How do I get through to my foolish brother? He is constantly letting people play him no matter what I say?

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