I really want to get pregnant but fiance changed his mind, he doesn't want kids anymore?

I cannot believe he had the nerve to tell you he wasn't satisfied with his sex life, after you just lost his child. That to me, is a bit heartless. I do not think you should trick him into pregnancy, I would have to suggest finding someone with the same goals as you. I know it's easy for me to say, and hard for you to do because you love him, but in all honesty deceit is not the way to go hun. Not being sexually satisfied is not a reason to leave, but it is something to work through. With love, all things are possible and all things can be worked through. Maybe this is his way of dealing with the loss? I am not sure but it is definitely something you need to discuss with him, but I would not go ahead and trick him. If not him, there is a man out there that will love you and is willing to stand by your side and pursue your dreams with you, and not threaten to leave because of a ********. I would hate for you to get pregnant by him, only to find your soul mate later. If you want children and he isn't willing to pursue the dream with you, then it may be time to move on, but keep in mind that it just may be his mood at the moment because of the loss. I feel for you, and wish you lots of luck. Please let me know if you need anything at all :)

Oh sweetie move on. You need someone who wants a life that makes you both equally happy. This guy is all about himself and not that he's cheating but (from past experience) this new friend may have put a "bug in his ear". She may have said some crap like "if you were MY boyfriend..." or "she should be doing this...or doing that..." So now he's putting himself first. I don't doubt that you could raise a baby alone but I don't think if you have a choice you should intentionally go for it. I just had my daughter 5 weeks ago and trust me...its not easy and you need help. Don't short-change yourself or the baby. Then again...the love you already feel for the baby...it may be all the "help" you need. I just think this jerk is going to disappoint you more. Its hard to have a baby and realize the father truly doesn't care. I know he told you he doesn't want a baby but its human nature to have expectations. I'm sorry you are dealing with this and I wish you the best of luck. Here's a thought...maybe your angels were blessings HE didn't deserve.

Oh hun im so sorry to hear about this, thats awful.

I think he is so out of order about this, how can he suddenly change his mind after everything you have been through? Babe F**k him you deserve better than that.

How can he say you dont sexually please him, doesnt he realise what you have just been through? This really pisses me off when the other partner does this..he obviously wants a child or he would never have tried in the first place with you, then things dont go his way and suddenly he changes his mind. For a women who has just suffered a miscarriage, been told you should stop trying is one of the hardest and most upsetting things to hear and deal with, ive been there and it tore me apart.

If he doesnt want a child then dont give him sex without protection, two can play his game hun. Seriously just like the other ladies said, he isnt worth it and you will meet someone else, someone who respects you, some one who loves you and means it when they say it and someone who is understanding and wants a child.

If you need to talk hun i always be on msn, im just so sorry to hear this xxx

Guys are such pigs. I do not like reading about how some guys bring their girlfriends down. And if he is always putting you down then you need to be with someone who isn't going to hurt you all the time. If you want a baby you keep trying for a baby and if he doesn't like it and ends up leaving then let him. You have every right to be happy and to have a little bundle of happiness to hold and tell "goodnight" before bed. It is not mean nor stupid on your part either. It seems like you have been through a lot with pregnancies and if he isn't wearing a raincoat then it's making you confused. Talk to him about it and if he is negative just tell him like it is.

Oh Jenny, I'm so sorry you are going through this. Its awful to feel hurt and betrayed by the people we love and who love us.

We can make all of the excuses we want for his behaviour: "he is grieving from the miscarriage", "he doesn't want you to get hurt again if you suffer another miscarriage".. but the reality is he is not respecting your feelings.

His behaviour is extremely distructful. I have no advice, except to seek counseling. If he doesn't want marital counseling, try individual counseling. It can really help identify and articulate your feelings. It's also good to get a neutral fresh perspective.

Whatever the outcome you decide, just know you have your friends (including me) to lean on.

Best wishes.

I suggest being with someone who supports you and wants the same thing you want.