How do I keep trying with bfn after bfn?

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. It is so frustrating and heart breaking. My husband and I tried for years to get pregnant and after about a millions tests, lots of heartbreak & two different fertility doctors, we were finally able to conceive via IUI. The fertility doctor that helped us get pregnant was so thorough that it made me question if the first doc we went to even knew what he was doing...so don't be afraid to go elsewhere if you don't feel that you are receiving enough involvement. My process was call the office on Day One of PD...Day three Ultrasound to make sure everything looked clear...Clomid on days 5-9...Ultrasound on Days 12 to check for follicles (and successive days if they didn't look ready)...Ovidrel injection around Day 15 with intercourse that night...two days later IUI. I realize that each doctor has his own process, but I just wanted to give you an idea of the process I went through.

Just keep your faith that it will happen...I know it is difficult. It seems like everyone around you gets pregnant so easily and you wonder what is wrong with you. I pray that you will have success and that you will soon be blessed with a baby. Best of Luck to you!!

I'm really sorry hun. Maybe you should try injectables next time since it does give you a better chance. I would also ask about doing 2 iui's back to back (one at 12 hours after ovidrel and one 24-36 hours after ovidrel). Word to the wise though, if you do injectables don't do the IUI if you have more than 3 mature follicles, 4 at the most. I had 6-8 and I am now pregnant with quads as you know. I have to consider selective reduction which for me has been harder to deal with than not being able to get pregnant. I am having a hard time staying positive about this pregnancy.

I know you will get pregnant soon but maybe just step it up a little with the meds. They should use a low dose because they can always increase it as they monitor you by u/s.

Best of luck and keep your chin up. It will happen. :)

Wow, you have great potential of recommendations. individually, I examined another day from 6 dpo, and finally have been given my BPF at 10 dpo. i'm only too excitable and in touch to attend. i could no longer sleep at night, it became undesirable! I wasn't even late yet. I went for a blood attempt at 11 dpo to verify. that's my month, and that i'm hoping that's yours too! sturdy success!!!

Feeling your pain and sending you my sincerest sympathies...

Good luck and baby dust!!!