I kinda need sexuality help....?

When you want real advice, instead of just fellow bible thumpers telling you you are evil, and hearing the same tired old lies from fundies, drop me a line.

Before I start I want to tell you I am coming to you as a 17 year old girl. who has struggled with porn and being attracted to the girls.

Your Right, this is a Spiritual Battle! Satan is trying to get you fall into something you never thought you would be tempted to do.. You are doing the right thing by holding this problem up to God's Light. KEEP PRAYING! never stop praying

The first thing you need to do is stop looking at porn. this is wrong, and it is only pushing you farther into curiosity and sin. If you are having a hard time stopping..thats ok..you don't know how many Christian Guys are struggling with the same thing, So please dont be ashamed to bring it up to your Youth Pastor! I'm sure your not the only one, In fact I know your not. But it would be good to get an accountabilty partner who will help keep you in check.

Keep having your quiet times and I would suggest finding Some Guy Devotionals to go through that will help you get started and make it interesting.

Keep strong Friend, I'll be praying for you

Don't let satan win this battle. God has already won the war for you, just keep your eyes on him, and it will all fall into place. everything will fall into place. againI urge you to find someone to keep you accountable such a Youth pastor or Youth worker...A male one would be best.

If you need anything else, feel free to Email me.

Porn of any kind is not acceptable in the life of a Christian. Did Jesus not say to shun lust? You will need to battle this demon first before you tackle any others. If you have same sex attraction it isn't a choice and you will have to grapple with it sooner or later. That you enjoy gay pornography should say something to you. What do you fantasize about, guys or girls? That will tell you something too. Self-loathing about what you might be is not something God wants. May God help you in all your struggles and may you accept the Truth from the Holy Spirit.

The problem with addictions like pornography is that you start of with something that seems "normal" but then you crave more and when that doesn't satisfy you, you start craving "naughtier" stuff until it leads into all manner of depravity.

If you are truly, truly concerned about your situation, then you need to find someone reliable to confess your sin to who can help you repent (turn away from sin and toward God). Ideally this is a sibling or your parents.

One of the things that can help is replacing your alone time where you are tempted to lose that self-control and start looking at porn and instead get online and study the Bible with people on forums and whatnot, or even better, completely get away from the computer and study with real-life friends.

Remember, God will not allow you to be tempted more than you can withstand. He always provides a way out, a choice.

In Truth and Love

It sounds more like your sexually confused. At your age your hormones are going nuts in your body and you're getting mixed signals. As far as homosexuality being a choice, given the way that our society treats homosexuals, it's hard to imagine someone getting up and deciding to be gay.

" I am a straight 15 year old guy. I have only dated girls and I like girls, but it seems that when I look at porn...."

There's the root of your problem.

Stay away from porn.

i have had your problem. i am a 17 yo female, and i was extremely "addicted" to all things sexual. i spoke to my pastor at church and she gave me a book on Christian teenage sexuality. i cannot remember what it was called, but you can find it on amazon.

may God bless you and keep you. i will pray for you.

don't worry about the curiousity. because we have been raised the way we have, we haven't had much contact with anything sexual. not like todays young ppl, who are having sex at nine and ten years old. our hormones are raging, and we want to know what sex is and how it happens.

Homosexuality is NOT a choice, I don't know how many times I have to tell people that

Just get it out of your system, masturbate or something. But lemme guess, your parents have sexually repressed you from age one? You're just curious seeing as you don't know how things are supposed to go.

the thing that contradicts your christian faith more than your curiosity is the fact that you watch porn.

I'm sorry your religion has caused you so much distress over who you are. If you ever need it, the Trevor Project is there for you. http://www.thetrevorproject.org/home1.aspx