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i just dreamed of myself kissing a girl I've never met. but I'm a girl and I have a boyfriend for 2 years now!?

i went to bed late the other night like i usually do.. and when i woke up early yesterday, i know i had a dream that i cannot remember. then went back to bed and i dreamed of a few people i don't know. in my dream, I'm friends with this girl (friend A) that is about 3 years older than me and she likes a guy (friend B) that's my age. and I guess i know the guy so i set them up for a date even though I'm aware that, that guy likes someone else, but even though he does he was so conceited he never admits liking anybody.

now there was this other girl (friend C) who confessed falling in love with me because of what i did for my friend (friend A) and though i told her that I am straight she still went on and on about how wonderful things would be if we start dating. i didn't mind hangin out with her since we don't do anything intimate and we're always with her other friends. then once she invited me to come with her to the church nearby my house for a vigil. i went with her and her friends and it seems like she's always attending stuff like that because she knew one of the old ladies that volunteers in there that were introduced to me. in my dream i told the lady that i don't feel comfortable being there since I'm a 'lesbian' (i don't remember which part of the dream I finally admitted that I'm a lesbo), but she said it's okay. so I sat with the old ladies on the other side of the church, across from where the girl (friend C) sits. then all of a sudden the lady stood up, gave me a nasty look and yelled "you do not belong here!" then the crowd was in panic and was racing to the door, and so that's what i did too. i ran towards the opposite direction of where they were going to avoid her(friend C). as i was getting out of there i don't know how but she was already outside waiting for me. she said she was waiting and she wanted to talk to me so i pulled her in a spot where there's not much people and told her "this is not gonna work out, i think we shouldn't see each other anymore" she started crying and asking questions i couldn't remember anymore. the next thing i know was she hung onto my shoulders, pulled me close and kissed me three times, and then i pulled away and left. i remembered feeling awful not because i broke up with her but because she was really hurt and i am the reason behind it. (it felt like it was real when i woke up). and then after that in my dream i was walking down the street when i spotted some of our neighbors sitting in a car and under the car was a couple of packs of open cigarettes, then i sat right by it and took about 4 tablets from a pill bottle that was in my purse, picked up the cigarettes and started walking towards my house. what's funny is my house is only 5 houses away and in my dream i remember walking in the dark for a long time and then i woke up.

see i tried looking up the interpretations to this dream the whole day yesterday, (and its already 1:53 in the morning now) but there are many random things that happened in my dream so the interpretations just don't add up, or they just don't make any sense. I don't stick my nose in any of my friend's relationships, i am not looking for a new relationship and i am definitely not a lesbian or somewhat interested in girls. I have no doubts about my sexual preference and i am in a relationship with a great guy for twenty five months now. but this dream out of all my weird dreams bugs me.. so if anyone out there can figure a good interpretation, i would really appreciate it.

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  • Ocky
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    dreams are your uncontrollable imagination

    they can be eciting but dont read anything into them

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The thing is, it doesn't mean anything.

    Dreams don't actually have any meaning. Your brain is always active, and dreams are the result of random signals from your brain. Perhaps they have something to do with a memory or a story you read or a movie, or something totally random and shocking.

    I had a dream about kissing a friend a few weeks ago, except in my dream I know the person in real life as well, she's one of my best friends. I went home from university for Christmas vacation, and the dream happened then. I was talking to my best friend there, visiting, and she was gushing about her current guy, and what a great kisser he is. I had a dream the next 1 or 2 days after about kissing her myself. I'm also in a long term relationship, mine has been going on for 2.5 years. I'm very faithful to my guy, don't believe in cheating, have never cheated, and am absolutely straight. But I didn't worry about the dream, because I know it doesn't actually mean anything. My brain was probably reviewing events over the last few days, and encorporated my discussion with my friend in it.

  • 1 decade ago

    This sounds like a dream I would have after engaging in a political debate over gay marriage. Are you deeply interested in politics? That could be the reason. Or it could just be a random dream with no real meaning.

  • 1 decade ago

    Dreams aren't meant to be taken at all literally. So what you dream doesn't change who you are and how you feel when you are awake is how you feel. People have spent years studying dreams and all come to different conclusions. Don't worry about it. People have way more messed up dreams than that and i'm sure you will too!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dreams are just a collection random past memories and experiences. They don't have any real meaning behind them, its just your minds way of organizing thoughts, its the whole reason we have to sleep, and that's why if you don't get much sleep you become confused easily and start seeing things.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i once had a dream like that myself, and although i never admitted to it then,

    in my heart i knew i was Truly a lesbian.

    it is a calling sign for you,

    don't be afraid.

    Source(s): expierance.
  • 1 decade ago

    why?

    dont worry about it.

    Dreams are just dreams.

    Enjoy your relationship and have some fun.

  • 1 decade ago

    gay dreams are normal, you cant control dreams. like if you dreamed u kissed a hot teacher, thats normal too. it doesnt mean your gay, doesnt mean youd kiss a teacher.

    dreams dont mean anything if you dont want them too.

  • 1 decade ago

    It must be a fantisy of yours!

  • blah
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    it happens

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