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12 and hit mom, dad went off?
OK I hit her a couple weeks ago and my dad smacked me across the face pretty hard, it scared me because he has never hit me before. I made everything right with him but my mom keeps aggaging me on so I just hit her like 20 minuets ago because I can't freaking stand the way she talks to me. I couldn't help it even thought my dad was standing right there. I just flipped out and went after her my grabbed me and he didn't smack me across the face because he said he was wrong when he did that. So this time he freaking spanked me, but really hard while he was I was yelling at him telling him he is cop he knows he can't hit people. He yelled back I can spank my child if you've done something to deserve it, if you ever hit your mother again you getting it 10x worse and blah blah blah!
I was trying to be good, but my mom wouldn't let me leave the house still after 2 weeks! So I want to just run away, how can I get away with it so my mom and dad can't find me. My dad is really mad and my mom just keeps complaining about everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
18 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
They can turn you in for assault. You can be sent to a foster home, and you'll be crying to come home to daddy. So get your crap together.
- Becky BLv 51 decade ago
You struck your mother because she annoys you and won't let you leave the house after a 2 week grounding. You deserved punishment and apparently at that moment your Dad felt a spanking would get your attention.
You are a 12 year old child. You are going through some major changes right now and once the hormone fluctuations and emotional roller coaster ends you will hopefully be mortified and ashamed of your behavior.
How can you successfully run away so your parents can't find you and spank you for physically assaulting your mother and being a brat? That's easy enough. Head to a major metropolitan area, go to the seediest part of town, find a guy that sells little girls' bodies to grown men and become a statistic of another teen runaway prostitute. Expect to be beat, expect to be raped, to starve, to use drugs, to be sold to multiple men each night, to catch STDs and possibly HIV, to get pregnant, to have abortions, to die young.
Get a grip. You are a 12 year old going through puberty and you are a hormonal nightmare right now, trying to gain independence and figure out who you are. Quit hitting your mother. Look around your room, your house, your yard, and realize what you actually have... including two parents that love you dearly.
- hunter dLv 51 decade ago
WTF gives U the right to hit ur mom?? I don't care what U say happened or how much she aggravates U..U don't have that right! U are a child! And by the sounds of it, a rotten 1 @ that! Ur dad should have hit U across the face a little harder then he did! Maybe it would have knocked something back into place!!
And Princess, ur parents CAN spank u!! So where ever U get ur BS of "he knows he can't hit people" (from 1 of ur touchy feely teachers I bet) is just that.. BS!! If U were my kid, U'd still b looking @ that mattress and pillow and that's it!! Everything else I bought U would b sitting in some deserving child's home! I'd of given it to Good Will! 2 weeks! Joke!
U need to be seeing some1 about ur anger issues! Like, I don't know, a doctor or a shrink! But I guess running away is ur solution. Since U don't have a clue what consequences are! U need to stand there and face them! U did the action, now face the consequences!
- ?Lv 45 years ago
it extremely isn't stable. And particular, it is sexual abuse. He needs intercourse, yet (so a approaches) has stopped wanting rape you will extra powerful take action, for the two your sakes. end staying at your Dad's, may well be a beginning up. Why can not you tell your mum? you like help urgently. you need to pass see your college counselor, case in point. There are additionally companies you may pass and talk with, which incorporate a branch in the police.yet who they're relies upon on the place you reside. there could be something on the interest board in college, or in the telephone e book. (some style of womens disaster or rape centre) do no longer wait a single day. don't be positioned off or have your fears disregarded. Sorry it extremely is going on to you.
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- neato1975Lv 61 decade ago
What is your question? How to successfully run away? The answer to that is you can't...sure you could get out of your house, but the truth is, to really run away and not be found will only lead to no good. You are 12 (?), as grown up as you may be, you are still a child that needs to be taken care of...when on the run, this is a fact that can and will be manipulated by any pervert who gets the chance.
Why are you upset about being hit by your father? How is that any different from what you did to your mother? Don't hit your mom...someday, the fact that you did will be a great source of embarrassment.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well you should never hit someone especially your parents. There is no point in running away especially if you are 12 years old. You deserve that spanking if you hit her.
Maybe if you try acting like you should you wouldn't have any punishments and your parents wouldn't be so strict.
Also, it seems like you have anger problems or her and you just don't get along. Maybe talking to her about this and getting help would fix your family life.
Also, were are you going to go if you run away? You are 12, don't expect to get far.
Look, I'm not trying to be mean, but you are a little girl, and you should not be doing that to your mother.
- 1 decade ago
I agree with hunter d, If i ever thought of hitting my mother at that age she would of slapped me across the face and take everything i own away for awhile.
happy new year do you have kids? so you saying that hitting your mother is ok and does not deserve a punishment when you are 12?
so you believe that it is ok to hit your parents when they deserve it? that is immature, and if you have kids, and when they are old enough to talk to you and hit and if they hit you then i guess it is ok.
i am not saying that spanking your kids for small things is ok and hitting and spanking are two different things.
- 1 decade ago
stop hitting ur dang mom...geez unless she attacks you who cares about her mouth? Let it go in one ear and out the other. Plus ur dad can spank u and sorry but had the right to. Running away wont solve anythin bc how do u expect to ever support yourself, go to college etc? You may not realize but parent spend a crap load for you. Just food would cost you a ton and youre only twelve. It would ruin you to leave unless you were in a dire situation where home isnt safe (if thats the case seek a counselor , teach etc) otherwise stay put
- 1 decade ago
hitting your mother is just crazy they are your parents and like it or not you have to do what they say until ur 18 and your only 12 think about everything you have like most important roof over your head and food which they provide for you and no telling what else you have that they also provide things your parents say now im sure u dont agree with i didnt either when i was that age but one day u will look back and completly understand why they do the things they do and most of the time its for your own good
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You must hear this from a another 12 year old causes no one probably knows what your going throw at this age 1. don't hit your mom I know she can be annoying by the sound of it but try to control yourself 2. your dad should not have smack you 3.he should not have spank you sometimes my dad spank me then cuddle me but that's when I do something really bad but anyway don't runaway think about it how rough it is out there with no parents just try to get out of their way for a while and things might work out .
- ?Lv 71 decade ago
Have you tried staying out of your parent's way.
BTW if you hit your mother, you deserve a good, hard smack across the face.