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relationship advice please help girls!?

so ive like this girl ever scince i moved to town about 8 years. shes had crushes on me and i still like her but weve never dated, and about 2 weeks ago she and her boyfriend broek up. i think i might be in love but im not sure i like her alot and shes great, i love being around her and its easy to be with her. i want to try dating her but dont know how to bring it up or when the right time ouwld be without completely ruining my chances. i am 18 she is 20

Update:

im hesitant to think i love her because i WAS in love with my ex and she left me and after that my life fell apart and i just dont want it to happen again

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  • 1 decade ago

    OMG ask her out okay

    Be a man for once =)

    She's single & all u 2 need is a push ^^

    Have a fun Date for the both of you..

    I mean you two could talk it out..together about the date?

    their are soo many ways .. just be yourself

    say like this is my first time asking a girl out on a date, and continue from their

    or say would u like to hang out with me sometime then continue saying stuff do you like walking near the lake or beacn or palmsprings xD idk

    so makke it comfortable for her

    & be your self

    love is amazing <3

    advise: get @ her before she goes to another BOYFRIEND xD, that would just break your <3 trustt me

  • 1 decade ago

    I would first start out by making sure both of you have the same feelings for each other. Once you have established you both like each other its time to take her on dates. Now you want to know how to get on the topic about dating! so i would suggest this little trick i pull a lot! start off by saying this "hey so how is the guy hunt going? any guys taking a liking to you?" she may say ya a few or maybe none at all! you follow up by "well i think i know a guy that likes you" hope fully she follows along and asked who he is and "you know him pretty well (start to describe this guy...but describe yourself)" once she guesses its you that's when you tell her you have waited to tell her how much you like her and just go off of the convo from there! Best of luck to you dude!!

  • 1 decade ago

    If she just got out of a relationship then don't try to rush things just yet. Just try hanging out with her more, and spending more time together, then when the time is right I would try telling her what you just told all of us though. That you really like her, and possibly love her, you enjoy being around her, and talking to her. I don't think this would completely ruin your chances. She'll probably find it sweet. I know I did. =)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She is 20? I just have to say good luck! (not sarcastic) But I mean i think you should wait.. If you are only 18 you might not know if its love. And from what i know you KNOW when it s love. You wouldn't be hesitant. I say keep looking! :)

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  • 1 decade ago

    well... since she just broke up with her boyfriend you can try to be sweet and comforting. you don't need to make a move on her yet cause she's probably still flustered about her relationship. Just try to cheer her up but don't fall into the friend zone...

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