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how to seduce this kind of guys?

ok, he is 28, handsome, quite, very smart, he doesn't talk a lot, but when he talks he is funny but not loud, elegant but not very sophisticated.

He has just moved to this city, actually we are both not from the city, and we both hate this place, we are here for work.

I don't know if he has someone in his city, i mean a gf, but he talks a lot on the phone.

ok, now, that's the complicated thing: he is my superior at work, not the big boss, but yes, he is my boss!

Im crazy about him, please take it seriously and tell me how to show him that i am interested but on the same time, i don't wanna be ridiculous, and if he has someone in his life, i don't want to look silly if he discover that i like him

what should I do????

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  • 1 decade ago
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    This is dangerous territory here. If you express to him that you like him or even ask him out, it could be misinterpreted as sexual harassment (worst case scenario).

    Usually, my recommendation with office romances is "don't get your meat where you get your bread". Meaning, don't get involved romantically with a co-worker.

    If, however, you still want to make the moves on him, find a party or event happening in the near future and casually mention to him that you want to go but don't have a date. Pause for a moment to see if he bites. If he does, you're in. If not, then dismiss it quickly, like "shoot, I really should get back to work" and walk away calmly.

  • 1 decade ago

    Before you declare your desire for your superior you need to be aware of any office dating company policies... is it frown upon, may an office fling cost you your job?

    If you decide it is ok or worth the risk then ask him out for coffee after work, don't be pushy. If he says no then say "ok, maybe next time." He sounds like a reserved shy guy, Don't ask him if he has a girlfriend just make sure he is not married. The reason why a girlfriend is inconsequential is because if he hasn't decided already that he wants to marry her then its fair game for you! If he chooses you over whoever else was in his life it will ultimately be his choice and you should never remind him that there was someone else... you be the most wonderful, cheerful, helpful, sunshine in this new city type of person that will cause him to forget all others!

    Great luck to you!

    Source(s): Always get the guy I want and they never want to let me go.... never been dumped!
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ask him out somewhere for a coffee or lunch or something. Just ask him if he's dating anyone. Don't act like your crazy about him, but just interested. Just be subtle and smooth about the whole thing. Move slowly.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ask him out to dinner. Maybe he secretly feels the same way about you! but I like that you respect that he is your boss and don't want to mess things up

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  • 1 decade ago

    well....depending on what kind of work you do...maybe make a private appointment with him to ask some questions. wear something sexy. nothing slutty. sexy though. see if he notices.

    or you can say you're lonely and want to hang out. say you dont know anyone from the city since you're not from there. see if he makes and effort to go out with you.

    maybe try to get close to him on a personal level before trying on a sexual level, so you dont make a fool out of yourself. try to become his friend. that will benifit you in your work too.

    hope this helps!

    and good luck ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    invite him over and put on a whip cream bikinni like on varsity blues and give him the buisness

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