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What should I do about my fiances mother, she is trying to sabotage my relationship with her daughter?
My fiances mother is using all her evil powers to stop me from marrying her daughter. My fiance doesn't want to admit that her mother hates the fact that the two of us are going to get married. My future mother-in-law wishes her daughter never left her previous boyfriend, even though he was unfaithful and has no respect for her or her daughter. I helped her and her daughter out of an abusive relationship, but for some reason she doesn't appreciate my kindness. The evil woman attacks my character every chance she gets and the attacks are getting worse as the time for our marriage approaches. I pointed out to my fiance that her mother is trying to sabotage us but she refuses to believe it. She made me so mad the other day that I actually started yelling at my fiance for believing her mother and was yelling at her mother too, of course this plays right into her evil little hands. My fiance is unwilling to stand up to her mother and I'm at my wits end. I try being nice and give them whatever they want. I told my fiance about her mothers actions but she doesn't think her mother is trying to break us up. Right now I have a wait-and-see attitude, should I just ignore her?
Edit: My fiance finally stood up to her mother, we all had a nice little conversation and my fiances mom has finally backed-off. My loving fiance informed her mom that she has moved on from her ex and she is never going back to him, she pointed out how good things have been and that her mother needs to be grateful or everything I've done. Right now I'm in wait-and-see mode!
Edit: My fiance finally stood up to her mother, we all had a nice little conversation and my fiances mom has finally backed-off. My loving fiance informed her mom that she has moved on from her ex and she is never going back to him, she pointed out how good things have been and that her mother needs to be grateful for everything I've done. Right now I'm in wait-and-see mode!
4 Answers
- raina_vissoraLv 71 decade ago
For your own sake, get out of that relationship. Assuming you even make it TO the wedding, if the mother is so dead set on splitting you up, and the daughter is so weak-willed, things will never last. Some people are just toxic to be around, and it sounds like this woman's mother is one of those people... if your fiance doesn't see it, then you need to do what's best for you and run, rather than stick around, marry her, and end up giving her half your stuff and alimony payments after the inevitable divorce.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
I trust Leanne. in simple terms smile and be polite. If she is rude, pretend to no longer comprehend that she is being rude. Be the suitable fiance which you're. Be loving, yet no longer overly, on your fiance. she would be able of verify you the two are extra advantageous than chuffed at the same time. this could reason extra jealousy yet on the tip of the day, so what? enable her be jealous. You needless to say have faith your fiance and he you, so enable her play her infantile video games. circulate away her be stupid, make useful your fiance see this and he may even see her for her real colorings.
- ?Lv 71 decade ago
Walk away now. You want a wife not a child. You will never have peace in your marriage
