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My ex partner accused me of my child sexual abuse, my daughter , 2 in fact, live with me, they had been taken?

from her a year ago by social services for child neglect. Every two months she makes a new allegation, each time a different one: beating, neglecting, strangling,sexually abusing- always investigation was carried out and always closed with 'no further action will be taken' and 'no concerns s to the father's conduct'.

However, she will definitevely continue accusing me and using the children. Now me, my wife and our 5 month old son think it i enough. First, she may even harm the children (they can lie to protect her) then our soni might be part of this nightmare when he grows to be aware.

There is no solution? If the continue staing with me/and my wife , there will be again grotesque accusation, police knocking on the door, her keeping the children during investigation. If the children go to live with her, they will fail in life, they will follow in her fotsteps(suspicios, negligent, lack of hygine...) If the go to foster parents they will not be loved the same way.....

Is there any help posssible?

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  • .
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    .You need legal advice on how to handle this. The courts can order her to stop making false allegations, or suffer a penalty if she continues.

  • tbonz
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    1-Legal advice is definitely needed. Bring all your documents to the lawyer when you go. You need to be aware of your legal options.

    2-If she has a mental disorder, then perhaps she is unfit. I don't mean mental disorder as a joke like crazy, I mean a true psychiatric illness that can be documented and treated by a licensed professional. She may need help, and a professional can get her back to living her life.

    3-If she does not have a true illness, then she is bitter. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Humble yourself and arrange a meeting someplace neutral to find out why she hates you. Apologize and beg to move on. Did you call social services on her? Did you leave her for another woman? Push for starting over with a clean slate for the childrens' sake. You don't have to say she is a good parent but tell her you know she loves the kids and that she just wants them to be safe. Negotiate, flatter, build her up. If you don't work this out now, there will be no end to this drama.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I feel for you. I really do. You need to hire an attorney.

    My husband and I have a similar problem. His ex-wife is a convicted felon (for murder and convicted murder). She has a lack of hygiene. She is a hoarder. She has recently been declared psychotic and is on disability for being insane. The children are failures in school and life (cutting themselves, expelled from school, all are on psychiatric medication).

    Still, the State of California thinks she is a fit parent ?

    So, I wish you luck. But, hire a lawyer.

    Peace.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    a sprint bit paper telling him to stay away can not shelter you if he chooses to break you or your toddlers. there grew to become right into a sprint bit paper on the door of a school prohibiting firearms interior the college, yet that did no longer shelter the youngsters who have been murdered. each and all of the keeping order will do is enable regulation enforcement to cost him with one greater crime if he violates the order. in case you realize the place he presently is, call 911 and checklist it. in case you do no longer understand the place he's, yet understand the place he hangs out, works, or lives, call the non-emergency selection and tell the police so that they could attempt to capture him.

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  • 1 decade ago

    dude that is not good. she is saying some stuff that can't put you in jail for a long time. I would find a lawyer fast. I mean fast fast. this isnt good. most lawyers will talk to ya for free. at most 50 bucks tell him your story and how you can stop it. it sounds like she wants something from ya.(money is my guess for child support) and if it goes to court which it sounds like its going to you must prove that you are a better provider then she is. and you have stable home that is better then hers. i hope this is really helpful and good luck with that, sound like you are in a really shitty situation...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You need to start proceedings against her. Talk to the police.

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