My girlfriend and I just got back together. She's not acting right...help please!?

dude - it was 4am when you started writing this - that was two hours ago. and it was 5am when i started reading this.

so talk to her. you have to, HAVE to be able to communicate in a relationship. If you can't, then it's a problem and the relationship can't work out.

also it sounds like shes keeping a secret from you. But you need to tell HER all this. not us. And don't let her jerk you around like that... but talk!

It sounds like she has a lot of anger issues and there is more going on with this other person than she is willing to tell you. There may be a possibility she is more attracted to this other person than you are aware and he may fill some need in her life you are unable to satisfy. It would appear the best thing for you to do right now is to somewhat distance yourself form this turmoil. Something or someone else really has her in a frenzy and you are catching the brunt of her rage and possible guilt. You need to give her some space so she can work through whatever is going on. As it is right now she has you on a constant roller coaster of emotions and that isn't good for either of you. Let her know that you will be there for her when she really needs you, but that you can't continue with your relationship as it is right now.

I read your "autobiography" haha. I think I know whats going on here. Your girlfriend is young and you guys have been together for a long time. What I'm about to say takes a long time to except, but in my experience its very true... people change. I was in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend did a similar thing to me when I was 20 (2 years ago). She loves you and doesn't want to let you go, yet she wants to explore her options. She continues to run back to you because you are what's comfortable and familiar and safe. And the fact that you have taken her back so many times (even though it was her that was acting ridiculous) has given COMPLETE control over the relationship. Her power and her confusion is probably what is causing her to act so mean. Oh and typically when someone wants a relationship without the title means they don't have the desire to be with someone else but they want to have the option. They want to be able to describe themselves as single and they don't want to be tied down to the typical obligations of a relationship (hanging out all the time, talking everyday, etc.)

I'm sad to say that my best advice to let her go and if you were meant to be, you guys will end up together. After my ex and I broke up, we came back to each other off and on inbetween dating other people. He also would never commit again to "boyfriend" status. If she is treating you this badly, she is taking advantage of having such a good boyfriend and she probably doesn't realize how good she has it. I didn't. I guarantee if you make the move to break up with her (and NOT immediately get back together) her perspective will change and she will beg to have you back. She probably just wants to explore the dating world, and TRUST ME, there is nothing good out there, and as soon as she realizes she gave up one of the few good guys there are, she will want to be back with you. But don't take her back right away (no matter how sweet she is about it) because if you do it wont take long for her to realize she has control over you again and she will start to be mean again. I hope it all works out for you and good luck!!

The first step in getting back with your ex is understanding why the heck you broke up in the first place. Believe it or not, some people are clueless when it comes to this one thing. And the reason they're clueless is because it is so hard to look at yourself and your own faults. Everything that goes wrong in a relationship is always the other person's fault. We're perfect. It's they who screwed up. Well, news flash...we all screw up when it comes to relationships. Nobody is perfect. So the first thing you need to do is objectively look at why the relationship went sour.

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Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better. But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction. So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way. You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her

Ok, I understand the situation now that I read the great novel you have posted. Lay down the law my friend. She needs an ultimatum. Either you talk it all out once and for all, or she refuses to and you give up on it all together. If you don't actually sit down and discuss alllllllllll of this with her and get down to the nitty gritty you will never get this sorted out. I think you should definitely not give up right now, this is worth some more trying at. No matter how angry she gets or how bad the discussion is while you are having it, find out the real problem and fix it

Once question that most people ask when they are on the wrong side of a break up is "why?". Instead of wasting your time figuring out the reason why it was you on the wrong side, you should be concentrating on how it is you are going to get your ex to come running back to you. Here are 3 dirty little tricks they will never see coming and put the advantage back in your court.

Write them a quick letter and tell them you agree with the break up. Yea, I know it sounds crazy, but it works. Instead of getting some letter pouring your heart out to them, they are going to get a letter that says "ok, that's cool, and you know what? I agree with it". This is going to blow them away right off the bat because it is definitely not what they were expecting to see when they opened it up.

So you've already got their head spinning, so let's take it one step further. Instead of calling them, texting them or talking to them, you are going to want to just cut off every single avenue of communication that you have between the two of you. For a couple weeks, don't return any phone calls, text messages or return letters. This is really going to drive them crazy, especially since they are still confused about the letter you sent them.

Now lets take it another step and really get them thinking "what the heck is going on here!". After you have followed step one and two, you need to take your show on the road. By this I mean to get yourself out of the house and be around a lot of people.

This works best if you have friends you have not seen in a while or if you live in a smaller town and have places that everyone seems to hang out at. Now, here's what this is going to accomplish.

The fact that you are out and having a better time than your ex thinks you should be is going to get back to them. When they find this out, they are going to start putting all the pieces together in their head....but they won't be able to.

First they got the letter saying you agreed with the break up, then they can't get in touch with you and you are are not answering calls and now they hear you are out on the town acting like it hasn't bothered you one bit.

Do you think their head is going to be spinning? Sure is, and they are going to want to talk to you now! This is the perfect time to set up a meeting with them.

Here is the most important question you must answer - Do you want to get back with your ex? If you do, then you need to make sure you are on the right track. Just as there are things you can do to make it work, there are serious things you can do along the way to completely blow any chance you may have had.

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My girlfriend and I just got back together. She's not acting right...help please!?

I'll start off with a little background info....I'm 20 years old and my girlfriend is 19 years old. We were High School Sweetheart's and I knew her 6 years prior to us dating(I was best friends with her brother all my life). I love her to death!!!!! We've been dating for near 2.5...

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LOVE the novel.. anyway..

from what im reading, i can say shes definitely frustrated and stressed out..it may be from her job as she says or it may be that she is interested in getting to kno someone else interested in her (as in she doesn't really kno what she wants; she confused).

there is nothing you can really do except to not fight with her, she will eventually come to realize how good she has it with you. i mean cmon, u took her back when u found out she was talkin to another dude, she throws bltch fits and you put up with it...

let things happen that are meant to happen, u cant be impatient.u say howmuch u love her then just wait.

dont fight with her. if she doesnt want to talk about something, drop it. if shes in bltch mode, say im sorry u feel this way what can i do to make u feel better or less annoyed.

(for xtra credit) be straight up and ask her what changed..if she gets defensive, apologize and drop it.