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Is this love at first sight? Does that really happen, what should I do?
Ok, so I was at a wedding this weekend and there was a guy there that I was instantly attracted to. So as the night went on we were both checking each other out and ended up going to have a few drinks after the reception was over. There is something about this guy. I have NEVER felt like this about someone. That night every time I looked in his eyes my heart would start racing, I would get nervous for no reason. Im not the type of girl who is shy about pigging out in front of a guy or anything like that. Now, this guy lives about 3 hrs away. I cannot stop thinking about him. All i want to do is call him and let him know how I am feeling, but I feel like if I do that he will think I am some crazy psycho girl. What to do??? Any suggestion?
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I don't believe in love at first sight but I do believe in the power of weddings to produce intense hook-ups and infatuations. Weddings are basically a group of people in a confined space with an open bar, all of them focused on love for an entire day, all of them dressed to impress, some of them perhaps feeling envious of what the happy couple have found. It's a recipe for lust.
My advice is to capitalise on it! You're not a crazy psycho girl, I bet he was feeling the same. And from what you've said, he gave you his number - he wouldn't have done that if he didn't want you to use it. So give him a call and pick up where you left off at the wedding. Don't get too wrapped up in the idea that you've found your soul-mate - have some fun! Try to get to know him better and enjoy a bit of sexy phone banter. See where it leads and keep an open mind.
Good luck!
- Chetanna00Lv 41 decade ago
Yes love at first sight really does happen.
When i saw my bf it was electric, weve been together a while and i still get a rush of intense feelings for him.
Call him and just start off asking him how his day was, itll get easy from there.. if it helps have a shot before you call to take the edge off.
Somehow an opportunity will presnrt itself where you can ask him out for drinks .... or maybe he'll do it :-)
- bluedevil1642Lv 71 decade ago
You find him very attractive... Don't confuse this with love. You know nothing about this guy... He could be a terrible person. Not that he is, but he could be for all you know...
What to do? Take it slow. Ask for his number and talk to him... Get to know him. Have video chats with him on Skype or something.
I do not believe in love at first sight... It is physical attraction at first sight. Love is a deep feeling that takes time to grow. Besides, you cannot instantly know someone's personality in a matter of seconds.
Some say they get a chill when they first see someone... I think it's just cold air.
- blackcatLv 51 decade ago
I would say it's a crush. You definitely don't want to come on too strong or you will appear like a crazy psycho girl. Just keep yourself in check. And do everything in moderation. Try to get him interested in you.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
yes there is true love at first sight. I meet my wife at school and we been together ever since. I was a new student and just came to that school and on my first day I laid my eyes on her and ever since then we been together. FOLLOW your heart and your love with sprout.
Source(s): My life experience - Anonymous1 decade ago
yeah i think it can tbh