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im heartbroken and pissed, plase help!?

well my bff is now dating the guy ive liked for a year now. and im pissed and sad and i jus feel horrible. thats not really what i need help o. i need help moving on. i usualy fall hard for a guy and i wear my heart on my forehead so its usualy hurt alot. the best way ive found to get over guys ( for me!! ) is to find another one. i found one, but idk if he likes me. im usually good at body language and it says hes attracted to me, but i want to know how to get him to really like me. i dont mean deception or lying cuz thats lame and stupid. i just meant is there things i can do to edge him into liking me more. were both in track ( it may sound vain but) and i have great legs. im not afraid to show them. so i.e. i use that to get him to look at me. i mean things like that. im not a slut im actualy very oppisite. so i dont need flashing him. body language, flirting....anything. i want someone to love, to love me and to hold me. i just need that. but i...i cant date guys i dont like, i feel like a ***** wen i do. i want him, and idk wat he thinks. so any help advice would be great. but dont give me the ul find the one sooner or later. i want one now. idc if hes the one i like him now and want him now.

Update:

the new guy is not the one my friends dating. the guy in track is ,the one i like. not the one my friends dating

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    The same thing happened to me so I know what I'm talking about when I say that the best thing for you to do is to just keep away from them, don't be the one she will boast to or the one with the shoulder to cry on because either way that will wind you up, also it will teach her a lesson because you wont be an encouragement for her to do something like this to you again! The relationship probably wont last forever and by then, you would have gotten over him. Just don't mess with your friends bf, because you know that feeling you get when you feel like a slag, well you'll feel worse if you stole your friends bf, there will be consequences! There were a million times when I could have seduced my friends bf but I'm glad I didn't now, I wouldn't look at him twice now and anyway I have personally found that a way to get a guy to like you comes with age - literally, the older you get the more mature you get in your personality and looks, time is a healer so be patient.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well the problem with your heart is that, right now, you can't have him, and getting him isn't really the best option :/

    It's a hard truth, but hear me out.

    If you did get your guy, he'd ditch your BFF, which doesn't say much about the guy. I mean, if he dumped her for you, then what's stopping him from dumping you for another girl down the road?

    As hard as it is, and as impossible and not an option as it seems, you have to let him go. Refusing to let him go is only going to increase your bitterness and break your heart even more, so you have to learn to let it go or you'll be in more pain :/

    If you need help with letting go, find friends and family to talk to; they can ease your troubles and make life a lot better. It doesn't sound like it'll help, but it will down the road.

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    4 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    fail

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