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Is she really my friend?
I really need advice, if anyone can help me. I have a friend who i have known for roughly 10years we've been best friends for the past 2-3years. She was seeing a boy 18months ago & the relationship didnt last. None of her family or friends like this guy. He's not good enough for her, very controlling, didnt let her have friends. Anyway, they'd spilt up and then they got back together around September 2010 and he deleted my number out of her mobile + told her she wasnt aloud 2 talk 2 me, so she ignored me til xmas when she out of the blue txt me sayin she'd spilt up with him and was sorry her head was a mess and she wanted 2 be friends. i forgave her and said i would always be here because she is my best friend. we were close again until the start of march, then she got back with him. i said to her that i will still be here for her but i cant say that im happy about them being together and now shes ignoring me again :( i dont want to lose her friendship but this is really draggin me down. i would never pick a man over a friend and im really upset about this. what should i do??? please help. really really need advice xx
i really do wanna stay friends with her but shes makin it difficult, even if i text her sayin "wat ya at x" she wont even reply :( im really gutted.. if anyone can give me advice or has felt like this about a 'best' friend before can u please add me on msn.. my msn is find_my_destiny@live.co.uk x
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Don't blame your friend, blame her boyfriend, he's the one being over-controlling. she obviously wants to be friends with you, but she loves him too.
I would say stay friends with her and be nice to her and everything but try and make some new friends too so your not too upset by not seeing her much. (Sounds like the relationship wont last anyway)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Sorry but that's not your friend , because she wouldn't have let a "boy" get her head into some other stuff and not talk to you . And best friends are hard to break , but do you think it's fair . A "best" friend relationship shouldn't be split because of a "boy" and then she used you to rebound when they broke up . Because she needed you , but what if you needed her in her messed up head process?
Source(s): whatdoido.com - Anonymous1 decade ago
Well if they break up again and she says shes sorry again i don't think you should forgive she should not let him do that if your true friends she would not listen and if she really is sorry she would not go back but if they do break up and she says sorry you should not let her do that to you but if you do really want to make that work may bee you should ask her if he is threatening her or something
