What are your opinioins of dating Ex girl/boyfriends?

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I was with my high school sweetheart for 3.5 years and we have now been broken up for about 3 years, actually a little over.  We were each others first and ever since we broken up I have never felt those same feelings before. We stayed friends for like a year after we broke up, because me and his now ex, then current girlfriend were always getting into it.

Well as of a week ago he has came back into the picture and has been dropping hints that he wants to try to make it work again.  Some of my friends say not to pick at healing wounds but then my family and some other friends think it's a kind of meant to be.  I still have some un-delt with feelings from our past, that others say I need to forgive him about but it's really hard to let them go.  

What are your feelings/opinions on dating someone in your past?

bluedevil1642 · Accepted Answer

There was a reason the two of you broke up. Three years later, has this reason been forgiven or forgotten? Or has one of you (or both of you) changed? The last thing that you want to do is get involved again, only to find yourself heartbroken for the same reasons you were heartbroken before.

High school sweethearts don't typically get married because of maturing. Teenagers can mature A LOT in a year... So what was cute when we're 15 gets annoying at 18. His cuteness turns into immaturity. Our likes and dislikes change as we grow up and mature into an adult, and this means that we look for different qualities in our partner, as well. If your ex from high school now fits what you want in a partner as an adult, then so be it.

Good luck.

*..-LoveJunkie-..* · Answer

Give it a try and see what happens. That way you wont be wondering what could have been if you didn't give it another try. But you have to let go of whatever your holding on to from the past or it wont work. But at the end of the day, just listen and follow your heart.

Good Luck

? · Answer

forgive him and give him another chance get over the past and live in the present , maybe yall really were meant to be

jubin · Answer

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What are your opinioins of dating Ex girl/boyfriends?

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