separated from my wife for a month?

you need to get smart she's amassing an arsenal of slander to use against you, keep it in your trousers till divorce finalised and get yourself a lawyer NOW, shes had 30 days, so record telephone conversations with her (she needs to know shes being recorded) and ring her saying times up and maybe deliver to one of her friends, get receipts for any cash you give toward the upkeep of your son, this can be viewed in your favour in court,

I understand it is demanding, yet why does she experience the favor for police? Hve youthreatened her or given her reason to be afraid? Or is she over-reacting? are you able to no longer message her telephone her asking that she in simple terms brings a pal, and consider gotten the same, in spite of if its a chum. this can be excruciatingly painful. I understand because my mum did this to my dad, she wasn't a nasty man or woman, yet she became snarled on the time, affected by melancholy. That became over 20 years aho and she has wanted him again for years, a horrid project, because now he's with somebody else that makes him very unhappy, yet he will under no circumstances goback to my mum as she brought about him no end of grief, a he did to her. besides, are you able to no longer bag up her issues, each little thing, and performance it by technique of the door? you want to end this, this needs closure so you might bypass on with your own existence. Be pleased, no matter how demanding it is, as you want to maintain your dignity on your own sake and sanity. Dont beg her to stay, in simple terms favor her properly in her new existence and with slightly of luck you'll bypass on from this sense more suitable. I favor you all thelove and success contained in the international. by technique of ways, you probably did no longer some thing incorrect, if she became having an affair, its likely she in simple terms needs the help because she is acquainted with she became contained in the incorrect and fears your retaliation. you may and could locate more beneficial valuable. i'd under no circumstances dream of dishonest on my fiancee, we've been jointly six years and that i worship the floor he walks on, she became under no circumstances ever appropriate for you if she ought to damage you want this, you're so a lot more beneficial valuable off without her, and also you'll locate your actual love. xxxxx

YOu need to get a lawyer and start getting this divorce final and in writing! Stop playing her games

don't go having sex with other women because you are still married until you get a solid divorce.

You can move all the way to the other side of the earth, but you still are married until one of you pays for the divorce.

Best of luck, wishes, and mercy to you

yall are just going thru some crap right now.....it will get better