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Help Me!!! My Father's Having an affair with another woman?

Today i found out that my father is having an affair with another woman.

My mother always knew that he was up to something ..

If i tell her it will break her heart and they both will start fighting

My father stays far away from us since he is in the military. Ever since he's been away mother used to think that there is something going wrong. He has been always like that....

Now I am feeling very angry and confused and i don't know what to do...

Please tell me

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  • 10 years ago
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    I was cheated on by my husband in 2008 he was caught by me at the motel the girl was 1/2 his age he was 50 and she was 27 with 2 kids. My husband drives a truck and I trusted him with all my heart after 24 years of marriage, Your mom needs to know that way she can get her life back .that knife is still in my back and i think about it all the time,but i caught him at motel and the sorry *** went to jail cause she told off on him and she didnt know he was marry and had 2 daughters and 4 grandchilden until i told her, Baby girl tell your mom and be there beside her to help her through all the pain your dad did to his family.good luck and i will say a prayer for you and your mom GOD DOES ANSWER PRAYSI KNOW HE ANSWER MINE.

  • Chas
    Lv 4
    10 years ago

    First talk your father and ask him what the hell is going on. Remind him of the good qualities of your Mum and all the things she does.

    Ask him if he is going to leave the family and go with this other woman. Be open and honest.

    If his relationship with other woman is serious, than tell him to tell your MUM - NOW!

    If it is not, do not tell your MUM as this would prevent any healing in their relationship, quite the opposite.

    Source(s): Personal experience
  • Tell your mother and then get out of the house until the argument is over. She deserves to know.

  • 10 years ago

    I was in the same situation. I had to tell my mom and he got mad at me and they would fight so much I thought they were going to divorce but they havnt but they have REALLY bad trust issues. It's up to you if you wanna tell her but just weigh the consequences out.

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  • Sparky
    Lv 6
    10 years ago

    you should tell your mom and tell your dad that he is a home wrecker.

    It is horrible that you seen him doing that. tell your mom to take him to the cleaners and clean him out.

    Source(s): married 14 years
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Tell your dad that you know and that he should do the right thing and tell your mum. It is not your responsibility to tell her

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Your mom deserves to know

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    beat the woman up

  • 10 years ago

    blackmail him into giving you money then tell your mum when you have the money or item you want

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