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How should you respond when someone compliments your child's intelligence?

My 19 month old regularly gets complimented on her intelligence, and speech. When it is someone without children I don't have too much trouble responding politely. But, when its someone with similarly aged children (which it usually is) I have a very difficult time finding the right thing to say.

Somehow I feel like its rude just to say "thank you," and a specific compliment like that isn't easy to just throw back toward their child.

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  • K-Lo
    Lv 6
    10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I think "Thank you, we work very hard on that" would be polite.

  • dalmas
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • Merry
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    Children develop at different rates and the risk is that in a few years time when their children have all 'caught-up' in leaps and bounds that you could well come off looking a bit silly.

    All children have areas they find a little more challenging than others - that is all part of learning. So.. having said this... my suggestion is be humble. A simple statement such as 'they all develop at their own rate' lets other's know that you realise that whilst your child is doing well now who knows what the future will hold!

  • 10 years ago

    I don't say anything if my children get complimented. I tell them to say thank-you, or if they are complimenting their language skills, i agree politely and modestly. Both my kids are extremely verbal so I'm used to it.

    I don't feel the need to throw back a compliment to their child at all.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    I wouldn't have a problem just saying thank you.I thought the words thank you were polite!I maybe would expand on that and say "thank you so much that's nice to hear."I wouldn't assume the person was fishing for compliments for their own child.

    Actually thinking about it someone with children complimented my daughter on her reading ability recently and I just kind of agreed with them and said "Oh yes she is, thanks."that's all I said.

  • Selar
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    My 13 yr old is extremely intelligent. But he is humble. He would rather not be made a spectacle of when it comes to compliments. We just say thank you. We are very proud of him, but would like to pull our shirts over top our head when someone goes on and on about it.

  • 10 years ago

    I usually say "Yea, but she has an attitude to match." lol. Which is completely true. Then they usually laugh, and things get less awkward.

  • 10 years ago

    Just say "aww...that's nice of you to say...thanks"

    you could always throw back a funny comment letting them know your child isn't perfect...."now if I could just get her potty trained! ! ha ha"

  • 10 years ago

    If people tell me my daughter is smart, pretty, kind, whatever, and she is there I have her respond. "LJ, say 'thank you!'" To which she happily squeals her version...which sounds somewhat like 'tea-too!'...with a big ol' grin on her face.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Just say,"Thank you for your compliment.Your kid(name) is (put a compliment here)."

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