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Why do girls act totally interested at first, just to start ignoring you just before things start?
This has happened to me three times in the last year, and I have a feeling this will be four. I meet a girl and she's really into me. Texts me a lot, calls me, and wants to see me. Then, just after we move past the initial dating time where it could become a relationship, they run for the hills.
I don't bring up relationships, I'm not needy and give them their space. I don't get it. Am I just picking girl with commitment issues? I would be totally ok with just dating too and nothing too serious.
I'm really interested in hearing the girls point of view.
I don't believe it's an attraction issue, cause some have become physical and I make sure and not fall into a friend zone or act like I'm only looking for a friend.
I try to keep most of the communication 50/50. I consider myself well mannered and have been called metro before, so I don't think it's anything physically that turns them off. Like I said before, some will become physical... it's the emotional part i'm concerned with.
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- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
I think its because they are playing hard to get, and trying to make you chase after them to win their attention. This girl could have commitment issues, or just isn't interested in a relationship, just a friendship.
Source(s): im a girl:) - 10 years ago
If it keeps happening it might be you, while girls do like a chase (and so do guys) it seems odd that all three (and maybe four) have done the exact same thing (or close to it). It is possible it is something you do or say, something as simple as not washing your hands from peeing, or chewing with your mouth open. Some girls do need a few dates to know if the guy is what she is looking for. Also by "give them their space" do you wait for them to always text/call you or do you also text/call (not for responding though). If she is the one texting you and calling you all the time then it would seem like you aren't very interested.
Source(s): -Girl - Anonymous10 years ago
Guys always thought I was like that, But boy do us females have our reasons.
Maybe she only wanted to be friends. No dating at all.
Or she was seeing where it could go and then started getting turned of by your personality. Did you compliment her too much? when guys constantly say "your so beautiful" or "sexy" It scares me off... makes me think this guy is already into me so better steer clear in case I don't end up liking him and he gets hurt.
Or if she talks about someone... like an ex or her family or something and she is complaining and you tell her something like "their clearly idiots to make you upset" even though your agreeing with her you've just said something nasty about someone she cares about. Girls that have been in a relationship for over 2 years were usually in love and don't let go.pick a chick who hasn't been in love never talks about her ex.. and don't expect anything other than friendship and then see where it goes,
- Anonymous10 years ago
well i know that if im really into a guy i would kinda get things goin , showhim im into him and then i would let him lead the relationship and let him control what goes on and i would like that..most girls liked to be chased so chase her i know it sounds stupid but its like shes testing you to see if you really care so show her you do:)
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