Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Would you stay with your husband after discovering he's a sex addict and cheated early in the relationship?

We have been married for 8 months and just discovered he's addicted to porn and masturbation. We made a sobriety contract and he says he has been adhering to it. He visited a massage parlor and had a one night stand 1 week after officially dating. He is currently getting help and going to sex addicts annonymous meetings. I fear he has cheated more and is hiding more bad stuff. I am afraid he will never get better. We don't have kids. Should I stay or should I go?

8 Answers

Relevance
  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    This is a hard question to answer. I know that when you get married its through better or worse. But I wouldn't stay with him unless he is making great effort to change. What happens if you do get pregnant and just don't want to have sex for a few months is he gonna stray and look other places? When I got pregnant for the first 3 months I just wasn't in the mood. If he is making a effort and changing for the better than I would. But I would also do some searching to find out if there was more than 1 time..

    The best of luck

  • 5 years ago

    Just since you had intercourse everyday along with your husband does no longer imply he is a intercourse addict. Sexual dependancy is severe habits with out regard to penalties. For instance, a person who can not quit frequenting prostitutes despite the fact that he is been arrested, or stuck via his spouse and threatened with divorce, and many others. Or a person who surfs porn at paintings although there is an HR coverage towards it and he is risking his task.... Just since he "demands it everyday" does not imply he could get it in other places with out you within the snapshot. If you do reconcile, nonetheless, I could ask him to get screened for STDs and to make use of a condom on your first 30-forty five days of the connection (lengthy adequate for so much STDs to exhibit in assessments). Just in case... Hopefully he's going to comprehend why you're asking him to try this, considering you comprehend that even as separated he could have sought others as a result of typical rebound or harm responses.... Good good fortune!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    whatever your decision you and he need to know what this sexual fixation/addiction involves. it involves a great deal of mind tricks. mind manipulation.

    if he should take to seriously try to fix his condition

    it might take him 3 years, sooner than that or later than that.

    he will see improveent immediately.

    he wuold be still watching porn, because that is required of him as stated in the book, so that he could discover the tricks they are using. of course many times he will masturbate,while watching. but he has to do it so that he sees the illusions for what they really are. upon him learning and applying the information to his life he will have less epsiodes of masturbatino. and with periods of going back to a day of over indudengce in it. but the frequency is less occuring.

    You are very fortunate to receive this information, pointing you to the actual solution to the problem. But this solution is not only for you. I am not exaggerating when i say, hundreds of millions of people need to know about this solution. They don't know whom or where to turn to for proper practical advice that is the actual solution to their problem.

    Therefore please do your part in spreading the message

    I. tell others about the true nature of the problem, which i am about to tell you

    II. point others to the solution, which is the book i have mentioned after my answer

    III. tell others to do these three steps also.

    Nature of the problem:

    various sex presentations are filled with mind altering manipulations. they impact the mind quite strongly, and they are numerous. the person who watches really has no chance to defend against these powerful manipulations. he is delivered a very powerful mental high, which because of the sexual content he experiences as a very powerful sexual high.

    this solution manual reveals the mind manipulation techniques, explaining how the mind works, and detailing how to free the mind from their cunning deceptions.

    Source(s): Book Title: "Open To Bliss Sage Hope's 1st Gift to Humanity The Definitive & Complete Solution Manual to Sexual Attraction & Addiction" Book Author's site: http://sagehope.wordpress.com/
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    sex addiction is normal.

    It is normal for a guy to cheat. If a woman cheats, it means there is an emotional problem or a problem with the relationship. If a guy cheats, nothing is wrong. It's normal.

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • 9 years ago

    I suggest you pray about this and ask your husband to get tested for STD's asap

  • 9 years ago

    it best to find someone with the same habbits as some can be hard to break.

    Source(s): no comment.
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    he love his wood too much his energies should have directed at u

  • 9 years ago

    GOO!!!!

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.