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My mum is being a huge hypocrite?
The other day, my mum was reading a story of a 14 yr old girl who committed suicide because she was bullied. After that, my mum said "if anyone bullies you tell me. If you commit suicide, I will kill your bullies".
The day after, I did things a little too late for her liking and she started calling me things like "idiot" "d!ckh3ad" "retard". The day after, she still kept up the treating me like ****. She was constantly threatening to hurt me physically, like whack me in the head, or make me eat any rubbish I drop on the floor.
Today, I accidentally washed the dishes a little badly, and she went all agro on me. "Fold the towels. Or can't you do that either?!" "Turn on your dad's alarm. Or can't you do that either?!" "Empty the dryer! Or can't you do that either?!"
She kept it up, and I kept silent, until I finally burst and said "So much for non-bullying!". She pointed right at me and told me to "shut the **** up" and then she walked off and we haven't talked since.
What do I do? Why can't she realise, it hurts more to be insulted by those close to you, than it is to be insulted by random schoolkids?!!
3 Answers
- 9 years ago
Hello,
Wow, I can't believe after she read that paper about bullies. and then now she doing that to you at home??? I am glad you finally burst and said "So much for non-bullying!" You got her to see the point she doing.. And she point the finger at you and said "Shut the **** up?" I am glad she walks away..
If she ever hit you .. YOU have the right to call the police or school about this... If she still Bullying you like that.. You should stand up for yourself again.. Mom why are you bullying me after what happen you read about Bullies.. Why are you doing this to me..I want to understand why you starting to do that??
I want to talk about that.. and see what up with that.. If your mom starts yelling and everything.. Just let her know.. Mom I love you always well.. but I will not take this how you treat me.. Did I yell at you no.. I am going to my room.. Let me know you really want to talk about this again and clam ways.. Because, I don't like you treat me like that.. I never treat you or talk to you like that.. You are my mother I respect you.. and same time i need you respect me too smiling..
I do hope this helps... You stood up and I am proud of you... you didn't let her run you over again and again..
- 9 years ago
Moms get frustrated too. Counseling is the key. Speak to the counselor at your school not to change your mom but to help you. You will learn to cope and feel better just talking it out. Then you will be surprised things will get better all around.
Source(s): life experience. - Anonymous9 years ago
what a lovely mother you have ...
just tell her that you don't appreciate her treating you this way. If you guys have a close enough relationship she will understand :)
