Who Says No to Sex?!?

Hey, Vinny!!! HAPPY FRIDAY!!! You pretty much answered your own question when you said that there is one person in the relationship that is "dominant" ... however ... your question isn't necessarily about "who" has the headache/excuse .... it's about SEX!! You need to find someone who doesn't use excuses and enjoys sex ALL OF THE TIME! Hmmmmm ... believe it or not ... there are people like that out there! I'm certainly not throwing myself out there ... but this is a fact of life that I only have ONE excuse for ..., and that's my "DOT" ... AND ironically enough ... it's when I'm on my 'DOT" that I'm the horniest .... TMI ... sorry.

You're not an idiot ... you're curious ... and that's natural!! It's not about "headaches" ... it's about the act of sex and if it's worth enjoying. I'm telling you ... if I had a headache ... that is a CURE ALL FOR ME!! HOLLA!!!!

Maybe if heteros were more like gays when it came to sex, there wouldn't be a problem.

We have embraced the fact that there is more than one way to do things.

So if one partner isn't in the mood for one particular thing, they are more likely to be open to other options.

Heteros, however, seem to think that sticking a penis in a vagina is the only way to have sex. So when the girl isn't in the mood for that, sex doesn't happen.

I've said no to sex before, and I'm not a bottom.

You seem to be stuck in the straight mindset that one partner always receives, and the other always penetrates. I suggest you look up frottage and tribadism. We have other methods of making you moan, ones that get both partners off, and not just the "top"

This is hilarious.

I'm gay and my partner and I never say no to sex! We never have headaches!

One of my straight male friends candidly told me I have more sex than he ever has and he's married!

And by the way, there is no top/bottom in a gay relationship. Hate to tell you. We actually switch off. How is that for confusing things?

The lesbians that I know are ALWAYS up for sex. No is something you don't hear very often in a lesbian relationship when it comes to sex haha. On my opinion there is more variety in gay/lesbian relationships then in a hetersexual relationship.

Lesbians never say no. With the whole "mother nature" thing, u never know when it might show up so we need to get it on as often as we can! :)

Guys want sex more than women quite often.

Two guys in a relationship? No is not a word I hear very often ;)

Vinny,

Guys don't really say no very often ....at all....why do you think gay people are so happy?

No is a four letter word in my household.

Why would you suppose that gay guys ever say no?

you're an idiot -_-

they don't take "turns" saying "no" its wheather if they feel want having sex or don't. if there NOT in the mood, there not in the mood...