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Help potty training a 27 months old girl?

So, her father and I are not together.. her father said she has been doing great with potty training when shes with him. However, when shes with me, shes absolutely is stubborn! I have tried candy as a reward, tried stickers as a reward, tried listening to her favorite music while shes on the potty, I put her on the potty for 25 minutes and every time shes off I put her back on 20 minutes later. She will wait till shes off the potty just to pee in her diapers.. its starting to make me frustrated. I want her to be able to be potty trained before late of August seeing I'm pregnant with #2.

Do you guys have any ideas of what I should do? I just don't understand why shes doing good with her father, but loves to be stubborn with me!!

Update:

her father will leave my daughter on the potty for an hour. So 25 minutes really isn't that long compare to him.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Potty training is a rite of passage that all toddlers (and their parents) must go through. First you need to make you that both your toddler and you are ready to begin. Your toddler should be at least 2 years old, and be able to do such things as walk from room to room, raise and lower his or her own pants, sit independently, and follow a few one-step commands. Children also should have some awareness of and be able to communicate the need to urinate. You also need to be ready to provide consist support to your toddler as he or she learns to use the toilet. Your home life also should be fairly stable at this time (e.g., not in the process of moving or divorce.) Now you know that all parties are ready, here are some tips to help you both survive the process. They are called the 7 Ps, no pun intended.

    1. Parent modeling. Frequently allow your child to go with either you or your spouse to the bathroom. Like almost anything else, young children first learn by observing and mimicking mom and dad’s behavior.

    2. Potty chair. Give your child a chance to get used to and comfortable with the potty chair. Set it out and let your child sit on it, name it, put stickers on it, and decide (within reason) where to put it i.e. in front of the toilet or by the sink.

    3. Practice. Let your child practice using the potty chair. This practice should be "play" practice, with clothes on. The next part may be difficult for some dads, but it’s only temporary. In the beginning, boys should be trained to sit on the potty chair or the toilet, for two reasons. First, sitting encourages bowel movements and so you might get a “twofer,” which is a bowel movement and urination during the same sitting. Second, sitting will help avoid what one might call the “garden hose” effect. Untrained boys have not yet had to stand, urinate, and aim all at the same time and may (will) accidentally spray the room (missing the potty or the toilet). Later, when toilet training is well established, they can stand.

    4. Pull-ups. Unfortunately for your child (but fortunately for your budget), to make the program work, your child must go “cold turkey” on Pull-ups, except at bedtime. The reason for this approach is simple: Pull-ups are actually wearable toilets, and your child is unlikely to see much need for using the one in your home when he or she can much more easily use the one he or she is wearing.

    5. Prompting: You will need to prompt your child to go to the bathroom and sit for a few minutes multiple times a day. Tell, them when they need to sit on the potty chair. Don’t ask if they need to go potty. The answer will invariably be “no” even as they do the ‘gotta potty’ dance in before your very eyes and a huge puddle forms on the floor at your very feet.

    6. Praise. Praise you child for all correct toileting behaviors, Not just when he or she produces a poo-poo or a pee-pee but every time your child does any toileting behavior correctly – pulls down his or her pants, sits on the potty, whatever – be sure to praise him or her. Do this even when your child is having more accidents than successes. Remember, as children enter into the training phase, the training is likely to be way more important to you than it is to them. But if they get the idea that pooping and peeing into the potty is a way for them to get their names in lights, the importance of training will quickly increase for them, along with their cooperation. You can take this a step further and use rewards. One method is to wrap little items – stickers, tiny toys, beads, gum, etc. – in tin foil and put them in jar near the bathroom. When the child achieves a success at any level, he or she gets to grab one prize (not one handful) from the jar. Praise and rewards make the training experience fulfilling, and make it more likely that children will repeat the positive toilet behaviors.

    7. Postpone. Here in P #7 we have some really good news. You can always postpone. You can always put them back in Pampers or Pull-ups, declare a moratorium on any discussion about toileting for a few weeks or even months, and then start again. They will ultimately be motivated to be trained, possibly by something other than your prompting. For example, the rules of social life in childhood weigh heavily against toileting accidents in school-aged kids. In fact, research shows that having an accident in school is the third greatest child fear, behind the death of a parent and going blind. (And I know that high school kids frown on their peers who wear Pampers or Pull-ups.) So the point of P #7 is that if training is going badly, for whatever reason, you can use the time-honored method for winning a war that is being lost – declare victory and retreat.

    For more on potty training and other parenting issues, visit our website at www.parenting.org

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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  • 9 years ago

    Potty training.

    There is no one age to begin potty training. It really does depend on the individual child. However there are some sines to knowing when there ready. 

    These include child staying dry for longer than two hours, asking about the toilet, asking to wear pants, watching you go, etc. If you child Is displaying any of these signs then their likely ready to begin. The average age is 2-3 but every child is different. 

    When you begin potty training there are a number of methods. First, training pants either disposables such as pull ups or washables. These give your child independence while offering protection in case. Also try potty charts. Have your kid proudly place stickers on his chart when he does it right. Offer rewards or incentives such as a new toy. You can sometimes let you child watch you use the toilet so he/she knows what to do. These things take time. If you try and fail don't worry. Back to nappies for a few months then try again. 

    I hope this helps. 

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    7 years ago

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    6 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

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  • 9 years ago

    Three day naked potty training technique.

    Google it.

    Stick her on the potty EVERY hour, not for an hour. Five minutes is fine. If she makes a mess on the floor, have her clean it. Explain that pee and poo have to go in the potty directly, or by cleaning it and putting it in there that way.

    Forcing her to sit on the potty for 25 minutes is not generally viewed as acceptable. The dad may do longer, but even 25 minutes is not generally seen as acceptable.

    Stop putting diapers on her, except to sleep. Diapers are made to be peed in.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    My little brother was the same way. Always waited till after he was off the potty to pee. We decided to just take all of his diapers away. We told him there were no more diapers so he has to use the potty now. We put him in underwear he did have a few accidents at first but once he realized sitting in pee isn't the most comfortable thing he starting going on the potty.

    Hope this helps.

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  • 9 years ago

    Potty training is very frustrating, believe me i know i have three kids and one disabled. You can not force or trick your daughter into being potty trained. Stop taking it personal that she does not do as well with you than she does with her dad. For all you know....he could be lying. When your daughter is ready to be fully potty trained , because you guys taught her what to she will automatically do it herself... if you push to hard it will cause her problems.

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