my boyfriend suddenly puts a passcode to his iPhone......?

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so my boyfriend of 2 years (long distance) took this girl on a date a couple months ago and i've known about it this whole time but he doesn't know that i know. i ended up deleting this girl's number out of his phone and they haven't talked since. yesterday, he gets a text from a random number asking for dental advice (he's going to be a dentist) and he showed me the text and said he had no idea who it was. while the phone was in my hand, he received another text saying "this is ____. we had a night in chicago back in oct." and he tried to take the phone out of my hand so fast. we had a long talk and even though he's still lying about a couple details from that night, he now knows i know most of the truth. so i delete her number again and he swears he loves me and nothing's ever going to happen with her. 
so all night i'm paranoid and kept asking him "did she text you again..." and he kept saying no. then he puts a code onto his iPhone so i can't check ever again. 
do you think he's hiding something and just trying to keep me from snooping and being suspicious all the time?

mJc · Accepted Answer

Come on, face the reality of this situation.  It doesn't matter if he added a passcode to his iPhone.  He is not your boyfriend.  Move on.

? · Answer

He is obviously hiding something, otherwise he wouldn't have put a pass code in his phone. It just broke up with my bf of three years, and used to go through the same stuff. He would always get texts while he was asleep, or after coming home from being out.. I looked through his phone a few times, and they were from random girls..flirting. It's humiliating, and frustrating and gives you this yucky feeling in the pit of your stomach. I stuck in the relationship for much longer than I should have. It was emotionally deteriorating. He also put a pass code on his phone after we had arguments about it. If he is serious about you, and want a relationship with just you, there should be no secrets.. there should be no random girls texting him. I wouldn't trust him after that. If you can't trust him, there is no point in continuing the relationship. You will spend sooo much time sitting around wondering and worrying and making yourself crazy! So much stress. Don't you want to go to sleep at night, and just go to sleep? Instead of laying there wondering all the time?? It was overwhelming for me, I'm sure it is for you too.

Anonymous · Answer

I think he's hiding something. my bf is like that too. he puts a code then he takes it off, then puts it back on again. but i know from experience. so just talk to him and ask him whats going on...and if still lying about everything then just go from there. you do what you think is best.

Caleb · Answer

he might be getting you a gift or a ring and has info about it on there and doesnt want you to know. how does he treat you lately? concider that fact of the other girl. the second u found out about her you should have ditched him. hes CHEATING! **** that asshole! you can do better than that.
further help? email me at:
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marz_miller · Answer

It's to keep your nosy arss out of his phone...

the relationship is already over since you can't trust him.

? · Answer

run for your life.  it can end now or after a few months or years of torture, but it is going to end.  end it on your terms.  He's cheating on you right now, and you're putting up with it.

ladyhawke707 · Answer

Wow! Yes he is cheating or planning to cheat.

Anonymous · Answer

no, i think that he thinks someone else is going through his fone.. he might tell you the passcode:)

Anonymous · Answer

that doesnt sound good :/

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