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Dancing at my wedding.?
The 6th of december I will get married. My wife-to-be wants me opening the evening dancing with her. I can't dance! I really don't. What is the solution for my problem?
Can I say no and leave the topic unsolved? Can I offer something else?
9 Answers
- SaneyayaLv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
You really don't need to know how to dance at all. Choose a slow song, just shuffle around kissing your wife, and stand still hugging alot. People won't be noticing your feet- they will be admiring the bride's gown and clapping whenever you kiss. It is only a 2 minute interlude in the entire reception,so don't worry about it.
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Source(s): what I have observed at literally hundreds of weddings I have attended - ?Lv 79 years ago
It's traditional that the first dance is the bride and groom.
It's usually a slow dance so there aren't too many fancy moves.
You just hold her in the dancing position and sway back and forth a little.
Or you could go take dancing lessons - many people do.
Do it secretly. Then amaze her.
- CaraLv 49 years ago
You could make her reeeaaally happy and get dance lessons together; that way, she gets what she wants, and you won't be worried about how it looks. That is more money on top of what you're spending on the wedding already, but it would be memorable for her and you might learn that you enjoy dancing once you know some steps.
If your wedding will be a casual, low-key one, you don't have to have dancing at all. Sometimes lots of music/dancing doesn't fit, depending on the kind of party, so it's OK not to have any of it, including a first dance. <-- This is my preference (I'm like you - cannot dance at ALL), but it doesn't allow your future wife to have something that sounds pretty important to her.
Overall, do you think your guests will want to dance/expect it? If so, you'll already have a DJ/band anyway, so it may be worth a few lessons to make everyone happy and gain a little confidence.
- Anonymous9 years ago
There are two options one you can talk to her and tell her what you are feeling and second is you can try it just for your special one it ll make her happy so learn dance or talk to her
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- roqstarosblueLv 49 years ago
well u got time so u can take private or couple dance lessons or offer something else....good luck
- Anonymous9 years ago
you can choose a slow dance, which could help you execute easy steps and elegant moves.
If waltz, tango, or fox trot is difficult for you, don’t worry, just to grab your partner tenderly and dance that classic and elegant slow dance.
- Common SenseLv 79 years ago
What can you do? Learn to dance.
Try this: Stand up. Side step to the right, then one step back, then one step to the left and one step forward to where you began. This is a box step and can be used with any slow song. Try it, practice it with her and be done with it.
One dance will not kill you and will do wonders for your new wife. This is one helluva way to please her and it is so easy to do as well.
- Anonymous9 years ago
Jist dae the waltz ye could teach a drunken monkey tae waltz it's a piece o cake
- 9 years ago
Okay talk to your wife to be about it or something else you can do together because it sounds like your worried about it and as your wife to be cares about you very much she wouldnt want to be worrying about it!
Just talk to her about it and im sure she will understand and can be resolved :) xx
Hope this helps, good luck! :D xx