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D holy book said sex shuld b had only in marriages, but y do people hav sex in relationships. Or is it allowed?
Should we hav sex in our relationship i don't want to break up with her. And i don't want to break up with GOD.
8 Answers
- BuckLv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
Many people in todays time doesn't go by or even believe in the Bible anymore.... It is a great falling away in our generation.... According to the scriptures sex is only meant to be done in marriage as a part of the marriage covenant..... Outside of marriage it is called Fornication...
1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
1 Corinthians 7:2
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
We make our own choices in this life and many will come down to selfish motives or our devotion unto God..... Which is more important to you?
Source(s): I didn't write the Bible or make this up..... I just study it, try my best to live it and as often as possible share it! - KaylaLv 69 years ago
People have sex in relationships because it's their personal preference. Some people wait until after marriage, some do not. Temptation does have something to do with it sometimes. Break up with God? (are you dating him or something?). The world is full of sin, God isn't going to hate you if you choose to have sex. And you do not have to break up with your girlfriend, what made you think of an idea like that?
- Anonymous9 years ago
Either you believe in God and respect his word or you don't. It's really that simple. You can ask a million people if it's ok to have sex outside of marriage, or "fornication" as the bible calls it and if they say yes it's ok, it's still going against the word of God. So you have to decide. "choose you this day whoom you will serve". It's white and black. no gray area here.
- Anonymous9 years ago
please remember the bible was written YEARS ago! it also says you should stone adulters, which we don't... I find that people live by the bible if it is convient for them. I think if you are in love with someone, sex is ok. married or not! I also think living together is ok. I belive in God. I have faith, I am not religious. I do not think I will reach the pearly gates and he will say "sorry, you had sex before marrige, to hell with you, even though you prayed and had faith your entire life. see ya" You know? Just how I look at it...
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- 9 years ago
You cannot break up with G-d.
Whether or not to have sex is up to you. Either way, if you are x-tian, you just have to be sorry about it and you are supposedly forgiven anyway.
- 9 years ago
you fallow your heart... you tell her your dedicated to God and the religion and want to wait til marriage i'm a non believer of the religion but i believe in God and i had sex in my relationship not gonna lie to you but if your dedicated to the religion is your choice...i can't tell you to go do it or your a wuss etc like that... i can only tell you that it's your choice no 1 is putting a gun to your head...
- justsharing247Lv 69 years ago
I believe eating shellfish was also a sin once upon a time...live in todays world.