Suggestions on what to order at a bar?

I'm just the same as you, so heres some drinks i get;

-Amaretto and cranberry

-Amaretto and coke

-Malubi and pineapple

-peach schnapps and lemonade

...Hope this helps!

Things like wine spritzers, mimosa, bellini, kir royal, kir - these are wine based cocktails so they won't be as boozy.

You can also do a liqueur mixed with a juice. Liqueur tends to be lower in alcohol. You can try peach schnapps and oj (basically a fuzzy navel), any kind of schnapps and 7 up or soda water, and I also like to do lemonade with amaretto.

Also, order your drinks "tall". This means you get more mixer but the same amount of alcohol.

Laurens got it right. Liquors like Malibu, apple schnapps, peach schnapps and ammaretto are all good choices because they are half the proof of vodka gins and rums. try a Malibu baybreeze or seabreeze

Strawberry Daquiri

I was going to say appletini jokingly, but you seem like you might actually like it.