He is back on drugs? help?

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Hello i have been with my BF for nearly two years, he is a recovering heroin addict and is on medication. he lied to me from day one, i knew he used to be on smack but when we met he told me he had been clean for months (which he had) we were together nine months when I found out he was taking medication. He said he didn't tell me because he thought i would leave him we had a massive row over it but we got threw it. Recently I've had a gut feeling he has started using again i asked him and he went mad saying how could i think that of him i felt awful for even thinking it. 
The other day he was in the bathroom for ages and i just knew he was up to something When i asked him he said he was just using the toilet but i just knew he wasn't i started an argument and he told me he was taking Valium and then it came out his doctor has dosed his medication up because he is stressed and until he stops taking other things i said what like smack and haven't heard a reply from him.
 How could he lie to me? he tells me he loves me but how can he? what do i do please help

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because, for some people, their love for drugs trumps the love they may have for anyone and/or anything else.

Lalala! · Answer

You leave him.
I know that's not the answer you want - but a drug addict will mess your ENTIRE life up.
My dad is a crack addict and overdoses on pain pills. He's done this for the last 12 years of my life. Everyone else is at fault - he is never wrong. If you accuse him of being high, he says things like, "I can't believe you even said that to me. You're crazy if you think that!" etc. When in reality he's been drugging all along and knows EXACTLY what he is doing. He told me the reason he gets high is because of me or my mom - they always have an excuse. Drugs fry your brain - I don't even know my dad anymore. They steal, blame, lie, cheat, and mooch off of anyone they can.
Don't take his baggage on - get out while you can. Not only are they ruining their lives, but he will ruin yours. I wish I would've been able to walk away from my dad when I was 9 to stop the 12 years of hurt I have to this day from him.
Best of luck, hon!

Anonymous · Answer

Drug users will lie, cheat, steal for themselves or for their fix.. as much as he says he loves u .. I'm sorry to say I'm sure he loves the high more.. druggies are way hard to be involved with there always looking out for opportunities to get high .. if he isn't repling or cared tried anything with u he probably really trying to get clean .or being the dirtiest druggie.. if u think he will change show him support.  But if not its not worth it.

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