guys- please answer oral sex question?

I wouldn't say I love doing it to a girl or in my case a woman but I do like it.

It's all part of foreplay, with both doing oral sex with the other, as that build up, before the actual act.

As to erections, they can come and go, especially if you are concentrating on pleasing your lady, then your can lose your erection.

But when you stop doing it and move on to the main act , it returns, because that's where your mind is focused on.

Usually all it will take to get hard again is for her to touch it, stroke it a little.

So I wouldn't read to much into this, if he says he loves it and does it for you, and then if he's not hard but gets hard,when you are ready, then you don't have a problem.

My Man Does it For me, Just for me because I Like It. But afterwards, Its His Turn And then We usually Go All the Way Together. Maybe you should Try Doing it Back To Him Afterwards?

Everybody is entitled to their possess critiques and tastes. But allow me inform you and any one else right here who says don’t like oral: you don’t realize what you're lacking… and you don't respect intercourse as you will have to both. No offense. Sex itself for us people is not only to procreate but additionally to have a laugh and consider well. When performed with any one you care, it's the so much exceptional factor ever performed. But to have intercourse the correct means, you need to deliver as a lot and extra as you acquire. And you must be glad and consider delight from the act of giving delight. Now, word that I haven’t say you need to do oral. No, as I mentioned on the starting, is as much as each and every folks to do what we wish to do. Oral is seeing through many as whatever nasty and soiled. I for my part consider that oral is bets while you each have taken a bath and are high-quality and blank. Believe me, it's a lot bigger. If you may have in no way performed it, that means you haven’t given or bought, I could advise to no less than deliver it a check out. It is rather like meals. If you devour “together with your eyes”, you wouldn’t devour so much meals as you could be disgusted. But when you style the meals, you honestly find it irresistible. Chances are that you're going to find it irresistible when you check out. But don’t get me mistaken, for those who don’t find it irresistible, then quit, and don’t do it once more. It is most important to speak in your b/f and be sincere to him. Explain your emotions, and ask him now not be mad, however to honestly support you. If making a decision to check out, ask him to support you. Take a bath in combination, after which allow him do it to you first. I guess you are going to find it irresistible. Just don’t consider approximately, simply revel in it. If you do, then attempt to do the identical to him, and make it transparent to him that he's to not conclude for your mouth it doesn't matter what. This is most important. I realize many ladies that weren;t certain however attempted in any case, and allow him conclude in her mouth. After that, thay in no way performed it once more rationale they didn't find it irresistible. Only for those who emerge as liking oral, then and most effective you then will have to check out (if making a decision to) to allow him conclude. Not each person likes the style and it would make you unfastened what you completed as much as that factor. It isn't critical to have oral, however once more, you don’t realize what you're lacking. Hope this is helping. Good success, and feature a laugh. PS. If he's going to depart you rationale you don’t wish to have oral, then he's a jerk or no less than, he's a little one nonetheless, so then might be is bigger to allow him cross.

My guy does it solely for my pleasure. That is his goal. Just for me. He doesn't stay hard at all, sometimes he climaxes with me but more often than not he just does it for me. Then later, it is his turn.

My boyfriend gets hard just THINKING about eating me out :P

it seems like hes doing it for you...stop forcing him, let him do it on his own (mostly) and then he will enjoy it

May be he "finished " in the process

HOnestly, he may be gay!. Gay guys like to please orally and sinse he doesnt get hard then it may be because he doesnt like females. He rather it be a guy!

maybe he doesnt want to ... blow him, like do something for him. he needs attention too

hmm... it sounds to me that he actually is being forced to do that... no offense just my opinion