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Sex problems due to masterbation?
Im a 20 yr old guy. I've been masterbating for 5 years, about 3-10 times a week. Can achieve an orgaam in less than 5 min. Sometimes even less than one. I haven't starting having sex since this year and when I have sex I can't seem to orgasm? Only with my hand and only when I do it. I also seem to be able to have sex for awhile and can barely feel pleasure. I usually either go soft a few hours later or she gets sore. At first this was a good thing but now its just irritating. I want to be able to ejaculate, we want children and I would really love to ejaculate inside her.I've also stopped masterbating 5 days ago and wonder if I should quit. I've been feeling like a rose; incredibly horny. Lol. Thanks for the advice in advance.
7 Answers
- ?Lv 49 years ago
i don't think it's the fact that you masturate often....more so the fact that you can *** in less than 5 minutes. That's a LOT of friction on your penis by your hand.
How you masturbate is what is preparing you for sex. If you're rough when you mastur, you'll need to e rough to get off in sex. IF you've been masturating 5 years and for those years you've been training yourself to come at the roughness of your hand withing 5 minutes....you're gonna need that much friction on your penis during sex...which, not too many women can handle it that rough.
I think, you need to tone down the time in which you can come. Try being softer, stimulate yourself slower. You don't need to quit masturbating, u just need to stop having so many quickies when you do and not put so much stimulus on yourself.
- ?Lv 49 years ago
My dude jerks it about 14 times a week (roughly twice a day) and he has no problem coming during sex, and we have sex every time we see each other...anywhere from 1 to 3 times! Your girls must feel so good about herself that you prefer the feeling of your hand more than the feeling of her!
- n2mamaLv 79 years ago
The pressure your hand can provide is a lot firmer than a vagina. You have desensitized yourself with all the masturbation. Time to stop masturbating and make sure you talk to your woman so she knows that it's not her fault.
- 9 years ago
Does she know? You need to tell her what's wrong because she is going to start thinking she's the problem. She just needs to learn what you like...be adventurous together.
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- Anonymous9 years ago
i kinda had the same aproblem you really need to stop touching your self for a while save it for your gf
