Leaving my baby's father?

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I am honestly thinking of leaving my sons father. We have been together for 2 years and my son is 6 weeks old, his dad and I have not had the best relationship even before having him. After the "puppy love" stage of our relationship was over everything went terrible and I should of left then. I feel like his dad is no longer interested in me, he isn't affectionate, doesn't show he care, talks/treats me like ****, does not appreciate me at all. I honestly think he would be happier without me and eventually after I am done with the heartbreak I know I would be too. We also live together, he doesn't do nearly as much as I do for our son in regards to feeding, changing and paying for him. I also pay the rent, and he pays cable/electric. I love him and its so hard i've tried to leave him before but I always change my mind. I just hate feeling unappreciated and worthless. I also don't like to idea of shared custody as I want to be with my son everyday ;( but I am so miserable and unhappy in our relationship.

Update:

Yes, i've tried talking to him all he does is get upset and tell me i'm annoying. But its because I want to feel loved by him. I want him to feel the way I do about him and I feel like he doesn't. When I do ask him for help with the baby he gets mad at me and will stop talking to me and will go to bed without fixing or talking to me like I did something wrong by expecting him to help with our son.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Have you tried just relling him all this ... if not five it a shot .. ges a guy he may have no idea ... you could also try going to counsling ... its really tough when kids are involved but if you did split i think infants stay with their mommas up to a cedtain age ... esp. If you breastfeed ... thats really all i got but i wish you the best of luck

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