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Need some advice on how to deal my situation right here!!!!?
Well well well, i have been single for nearly two years now and its been up and down i mean last year i met some imature guys who seemed to want me for the ride and then tell me they are interested in someone else and just go quiet on me after raising my hopes up.
This year over summer i went back to my country for 7 weeks had a good time saw friends i hadnt seen since primary, i connected with this guy1 unexpectedly he was seeing someone but she was giving him problems nothing happened between us cause i have respect for guys in that situation.
I came back for my final year of uni and since september too much has been going on. The guy in my country asked me out after telling me he could be cuming this side to continue his studies and get a job which i was excited about, hes a great guy hes understanding and all. Some other guy2 has become overly inetrested in me hes in my country as well and he tells me he loves me but i havent seen this guy in 9 years and didnt even see him over summer for that matter. He says he wants to marry me have kids with me and all.
guy3 i met him in january hes like 9 years older than me and has kids but we developed an interest in each otehr he would take me out and eventually we slept together, but recently hes been so quiet and i feel like hes with his ex wife or sumthing trying to work things out i mean that happens right
guy4 who i met 2 days after my birthday unexpectdly because my friend got him to talk to me and get my number, went on a date with him over the weekend and it was great hes fun and i feel like we connected and all, i dnt wanna rush into thinking abt the future with him cause things change jst like last year when the guy would forget about me with no valid reason.
Today guy3 texted me unexpectdly saying sorry for being quiet and he wants to meet up and says to me dont ever feel like im not interested in you, but i feel its all bull to be honest any guy can say that to get you to open your legs for him again.
To be honest im stuck and dont know wat to do, i feel guy1 may never *** here and we would find it difficult with the very long distance, guy2 has so many gurls who like him i feel he will move on by january and lose interest in me, guy3 i wanna get to know him more and see where it goes, guy4 gosh its jst the sex and nothing more ofwhich i wanna get rid of him but wat if im wrong?
wats ur take on this?
opps i got my guys wrong
guy3 is the one whose all about the sex i met in january
guy4 i met two days after my bday and i wanna get to know him and hes fun
6 Answers
- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
Go for guy 1 or 3. You seem very popular!
- 4 years ago
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- 9 years ago
Go in the sequence...
First guy 1 and on to guy 4...
Slowly dump guy 1 then 2 and so on after sum weeks being with them...
Then permanently make up with whom had been ur bst xperience...
Cuz guys r 2 types:
1) who deeply fall in luv.
2) who nvr fall in luv because they hve interest in other grlz.
Source(s): I've dun dis be4... - 9 years ago
I just don't get it how he can say he loves you if you haven't seen him in about 9 years? Creepy much.
Guy nr 3 doesn't sounds bad at all!
and honey like I always say first impression counts the most, so if you think guy nr 4 just want sex, I'm sure that's what he only wants.
Good luck on finding your Mr right!
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- 9 years ago
Definitely guy1.
If you want to judge how much you like him, just read your question description..
Source(s): Me. All Me. - 9 years ago
just go out with all of them and see where your interest is the most and take it from there! have fun for a change....