Totally lost interest in women. Please help. Best answer 10 points?

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I'm a 26 year old male from Bangalore, India.I was a very shy and conservative person since childhood. I never used to talk to girls because I was was really hesitant. I did have a few crushes, but no love or relationships. But when I was 23 years old, i fell head over heels for a family friend, and I guess she did too. We were so much in love, sweet talks, exchanging cute messages and all that. Since it was my first love, the intensity was just too high. She was always present on my mind. But it turns out she was totally fake. She dumped me and got into a relationship with a minister's son, because he was very rich. I was totally devastated. I felt the need for someone to fill up the hole left by her in my life, so I immediately dated 2 other girls within the next 6 months (No, I wasn't two timing. I dated them one after the other). This was the biggest mistake of my life. These 2 relationships never worked out, as they were more due to my attempt of overcoming my earlier painful breakup. That means by age 24, I had been in 3 failed relationships. These bitter things changed my life completely. From that point onwards, I completely lost interest in women. A couple of girls even asked me out within the past one year, but I didn't agree. I don't hate women, but I just don't get attracted to them anymore. I've also become highly addicted to music and video games a LOT. Whenever I'm at home, the only things I do are either listening to music or playing video games. I'm also feeling like I should never marry in my life. This is worrying me a lot. After a couple of years my mom is sure to start searching a bride for me. If I tell her I'm not interested to marry, she'll be heartbroken. My dad died at a very young age, so I don't want give pain to mom in any way. Basically I want to ask two questions:-

1) Is it possible for a man to remain happy without a woman in his life? I mean...right now I'm finding a lot of happiness in music and video games. Only thing is, will it last?
2) I really would like to develop interest towards women again, but its just not happening. Will that even be possible, considering that I have even forgotten that two genders, male and female, exist?

Joyita · Accepted Answer

See brother, it happens with almost everyone. According to me there are very few relationships which turns into marriage now a days. So don't trust and love anyone so much that you cant handle a break up with her. Its reality. Love may come to one's life for many times. So don't worry, you have lost interest in women as  you have gone through the trauma. After 2 or 3 years you will be normal and for spending your life you need a partner. So without woman you wont be able to spent your whole life dear. So listen to your mom and get married after few years. Which happened to you for thrice its not important that after marriage it will happen to you again. Because relationship after marriage is something different from premarital affair. So don't be scared. Hope this time your relation (after or before marriage) will work fine. All the best.

Esmé Carnage · Answer

If you've only had three relationships, don't worry, there are millions of girls in the world. 
I would find a girl who is obsessed with music and video games. 
1) Yes, you can remain happy without a woman in your life. You haven't talked about developing interests towards men, so I feel like that is probably out of the question? Music and video games will not last at bringing you happiness. Love exists and its better than all of that. You just cant give up after 3 tries.
2) I think it will be possible. Maybe you just need to heal from your breakups before you let another woman in.

Lilly · Answer

Trust me there will come a time when you miss the company of a partner and you will be lonely. There is only so much music and video games you can have you will get bored with that! You're 26 don't waste your life! I suggest you start going out again more and meeting new people. The right girl will come along in time if you put in the effort. Good luck xxx

Srikant · Answer

Man can remain happy life long without a woman.....A lot of people even don't marry also.....

chotte · Answer

Download and watch the Movie Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara. (Your never live Twice) you will have your answer....

Harold Feller · Answer

Have your mom arrange a marriage for you, problem solved.

Anonymous · Answer

Have you tried a man?

Anonymous · Answer

GET MARRIED FRIEND.. BELIEVE ME YOU WILL FORGET HER IN FEW MONTHS .. LIFE WILL BE BETTER ..EVEN IF YOU REMEMBER THAT GIRL .. YOU WILL NOT BE IN PAIN .. YOU WILL THINK OF YOUR WIFE !

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