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Is there a way to prevent myself from being "clingy"?

Whenever i like someone im really shy at first then when i think the girl likes me i become super clingy (the worst part is they never even like me). I have very bad attachment and abandonment issues. In the future, how do i prevent myself from getting attached/clingy?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Try to actively maintain other friendships, so that you're not spending 100% of your spare time clinging. Also, develop other interests/hobbies that likewise keep you away from being clingy.

    Hmm .. your condition *might* be due to an underlying lack of self-confidence? If you think so, work very hard on improving your self-confidence. It is vital to your success in all aspects of life!

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